I loved this guy with all my heart, first love, first boyfriend. We dated for 4 years, then he breaks up with me, 2 weeks later he proposes to a girl he was cheated on me with. They just got married at the end of Oct. I am angry at him for what he did, but how do i move on from the good memories that i have with him.
2006-11-01 07:13:31 · 6 answers · asked by FotoFan85 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I loved this guy with all my heart, first love, first boyfriend. We dated for 4 years, then he breaks up with me, 2 weeks later he proposes to a girl he was cheated on me with. They just got married at the end of Oct. I am angry at him for what he did, but how do i move on from the good memories that i have with him. (Yes she did know i was in the picture...thats why she found so hard to keep him, and he even cheated on her as well)
2006-11-01 07:34:12 · update #1
this is the kind of situation i always fear in the back of my mind. time heals all wounds, but just take some time off for yourself and then try and get back on the scene and go out gradually. odds are that you will still never forget about it, but you need to find something better.
2006-11-01 07:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been through that experience before, except my relationship lasted 5 years. all i can tell you is what i did, which was get out in the world talk, learn, view the world from a different place. go out and look good, so you can meet other people, and try to give yourself a second chance , i happened to took my advice and within a few month my x came back to me , begging. i cant grantee that he will come back, but i have a chance of meeting someone new. good luck ,
2006-11-01 07:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by tasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at what he did. He has been cheating on that girl with you for years and now he marries her. I dont' think she even knew that you were in the picture.
This guy isn't good for you at all. The sweet memories you thought you had were lies. Forget about him and go find someone else!
2006-11-01 07:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let it go!!!!....really!!!...i mean theres no need for good memories if he cheated you....come on...i know that only time will heal.....hang out wit friends to keep ur mind off of him....and smile (it's free)....let it all out...and throw everything of his away.....i know it hurts, but don't let it get you down....because you don't know what God has plans for you.....cheer up or else ur going to look like George Bush!!..lol....and stay away from the radio....they always play love songs.....listen to rap or something....some times life ain't always beautiful, but it;s a beautiful ride.
2006-11-01 07:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Zoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"it is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all." or for a harsher answer- obviously what u had was not what u thought u had. try realizing what a p.o.s. this guy is and go out w/ ur girls and get hit on. theres more fish in the sea.
2006-11-01 07:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by akoniuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem to be wastin a lot of ur energy on him...dont think about him so much and u will get over the hurt then u will be able to think of the good times
2006-11-01 07:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋