I am not a jealous person so I dont let the green-eyed monster get to me. I havent given him any reason to doubt the relationship or me. We have been together for 2 years this month, I just want to find out how I make the most out the relationship and make it easier on him. Thanks!!! <333
2006-11-01 07:07:38 · 15 answers · asked by miamoreshay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya'll have it all wrong ... our relationship has been great we have our ups and downs, just like any other couple. I was just trying to find a way to IMPROVE the love we have. He's a great person, just lets his insecurities get the best of him, and not in an angry way or anything.
Oh and that comment about showing myself off, if you see on my 360 profile I am very proud of who I am with! :D
2006-11-01 07:36:53 · update #1
since you have not given him reason to be jealous.....tell him to relax and enjoy being with you. he is the one and tell him to know that and spend more time thinking about you as a couple...other guys are not a factor.....insist on this....
2006-11-01 07:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by walterknowsall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is always jealous for no reason, then he has a problem whether it is not trusting you or some insecurity of his own, you are not the problem nor can you effectively help him over come it. It is one of those internal things that can only be dealt with when the person themselves recognizes their disfunction and works really hard (possibly with the aid of a psychiatrist, psychologist or therapist to overcome it.
While it may be hard for you to think about, and you may not want to entertain this thought, if his jealousy is threatening to you or you feel he is being totally untrusting, you may prefer to terminate the realtionship rather than tolerate his behaviour, which some might find to be borderline abusive even if he isn't getting physical when he gets jealous.
2006-11-01 15:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had one like that and i really cared for him and i never cheated on any guy i was with, but he still was jealous no matter what i did. I tried everything i think sometimes it is just the way they are with anyone we were going to get married to. But i figured that he would never change so i broke it off. I did not want to live my life like that. You cannot change ppl. I think that it is a insecure issue or self esteem thing ppl like that need counseling.
2006-11-01 15:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to anyone else ever again. Never speak to a man, or even another woman (in case you decide to turn lesbo)
Don't look at other people. Keep your eyes lowered and do not make eye contact. Never.
Do not have dreams. Dreams have the potential to include another man, so do not dream.
Do not listen to music, because it might remind your of someone else.
Don't progress in your career, because that could mean you're having sex with your boss. In fact, quit your job and stay in the house.
Do not answer the phone- it could be another man.
Avoid your family- they could be saying bad things about him
Avoid your friends- they could be trying to get you to meet other men behind his back.
Don't use email or the internet. You probably have a hidden email account or myspace so don't use the computer again.
Do not get your hair done, wear makeup, or buy new clothes. You'd only do that to attract other men, so stop doing it. You're not allowed to buy any lingerie because you might sneak out wearing it to meet another man.
Don't watch TV- you could be having sexual thoughts about certain actors.
Don't read magazines, especially Cosmo or Glamour because you don't need that trash anymore.
If you have a car, get rid of it. You're only using it to either go meet other guys, or have them follow you.
If you do all of the above, his jealousy might go away.
Opps- I forgot one: do not think! You could be thinking about other guys, so stop thinking!!!
2006-11-01 15:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, the problem is with-in him and his low esteem. I applaud you for couping with this for 2 years. I would have lost my mind by now if I had a girl like that! Help his esteem, help him find direction in life. Only then will he have that confidence! Good luck! If you run out of patience, seek me! Ciao.
2006-11-01 15:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you do to make him jealous? Stop flirting or whatever your doing. Have some respect for the relationship and himself. Good luck!
2006-11-01 15:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't given him any reason to be jealous, then he sounds like a psycho, and you should get rid of him before it is too late.
2006-11-01 15:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU dont...........HE does. If he's unable to do this, you may consider another. He has a prob that he needs tending to.......
Please dont be foolish by staying in an UNhealthy relationship!
2006-11-01 15:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you are showing yourself off, look at your picture. Act like you are in a relationship and not looking, and i am sure he will feel better.
2006-11-01 15:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to me. more comunication would help. im a jealous person when it comes to my boyfriend. and hes talked to ma about it..it helped a little! im not as bad!
2006-11-01 15:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by britni h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋