Please Answer!!! Want some Advice!!!?

Question

If a girl really hurts me somehow, should I tell her? Or would it be better for our friendship if I kept it in?
The problem is, she is my best friend, and that I like her more than that, I am only hurt because she just got a boyfriend, and wouldnt telling her make me seem like a dick?

Answer 1

There's nothing wrong letting her know how you feel. Perhaps
you really think of her of more than just a friendship and that's why you're really hurt.
You're not a dick at all, I applaud you to have the balls to address
this question. Now go tell her how you feel.

Answer 2

OK first off she didn't hurt you. People have their own lives and want to experience them. I would say you have to suck it up and hold it in (at least for now). I'm actually going through a similar situation and I was just going to stop being friends and
hanging out, but I've found that to be more difficult than it is.

However, it is also difficult staying friends. Only time will really stop the hurt. I know it sucks but that's all their is to it and you don't want to loose this friend. BFs and GFs usually come and go and hell anymore husbands and wives do too, but usually friends
you keep forever at least the true friends.

Answer 3

No, you wouldn't be a d***. However, you shouldn't tell her of your feelings since she has a boyfriend now, it could make things weird.
You should have said something about how you felt about her sooner. Just be a good friend to her.
I had my best friend who was a guy tell me that he liked me after I was dating someone else. It made me sorta uncomfortable. But, me and my boyfriend at the time broke up and I started dating my best friend. Things didn't work out and now we aren't friends anymore, (I'm not saying that this will happen to you.)
But you never know, her and this new guy may not work out, then maybe you could tell her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same way about you, don't sweat it, just try and remain friends, it's better to have a friend than to lose one.

Answer 4

Maybe you should tell her the truth. That you have feelings for her. Of course, you must tell her with no expectations. That is, she may or may not feel the same way about you. What I do know, is that even if she doesn't share your feelings now, she may in the future. And, it is important, that if you feel so strongly about someone, you should tell them.....for yourself!!!

Answer 5

ummm yes and no.

it depends on her personality. if she's very sensitive and you know it will hurt her feelings or make you two akward towards eachother in the future, keep it in. sucks, i know, but sometimes things just cant be let out.

if she's an open kind of person who wouldnt care, tell her. theres no harm in the truth.

sorry i cudnt help more than that. follow your gut and go for it.

Answer 6

If your the best of friends, you should be able to tell her. That's what friendship is all about.

Answer 7

I think that if you tell her, your relationship with her will change.
Your best bet is to continue to be her friend,
and wait for the boyfriend to screw up and loose her.

Best of luck. This is a tough situation.

Answer 8

I would tell her, she may be dating him only to get your attention. Some times you have to hit a Jack *** over the head to get his attention. You may find that you know more about her intentions by telling her the truth.

Answer 9

yep you would look like a jerk, why would you want to miss up her new relationship. you have more than enough time to tell her how you felt before her new boyfriend just let it go. and let her be happy..maybe you will get another chance later on if they break up..

Answer 10

Tell her you feel , But that is selfish that you took so long to tell her how you felt . How would feel , a person never knows if someone Has feelings if they never address thier true feelings