i really REALLY like thi guy and we had to move and i missed him! but i think about him all the time and evrytime i do i cry! i dunno if he liked me but he would always brag my waiste and poke me and hug me! but i told him i liked him and fer about 2 weeks he dint talk to me . . . but right now when i go to Mankato
i really cared about him and i LOVED him ALOT! :'[[
2006-11-01 07:01:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry Kay. you may have liked him but apparently he didn't feel the same way...he obviously thought of you just as a friend..or else he wouldn't have stopped talking to you over you telling him how you felt...realize that not all the people we have feelings for feel the same way back..and be glad to have him as a friend...I know its hard to shut feelings off....but try not to dwell on him especially when you don't even live near him anymore...you have to meet the people in you new community...that's the way to stop thinking about him///good luck
2006-11-01 07:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through this so you're not alone. We have all had loves when we were young and there is no easy way to forget about him...what I can tell you is the emotions you are going through are added to your total life experience...I don't know a good way to explain it...when you're a baby, you'll drop your bottle over and over again..for no other reason than that you want to know what happens when you drop a bottle, or touch a flame, things you are "duh!" on now but when you were a baby you didn't know a flame would hurt, or about "gravity" and that the bottle would drop, and make a noise, so you keep repeating the action...learning from it. These are basics. What you are going through is the SAME, just more complicated and emotional. You are learning about love lost (some would say puppy love) but still...you are learning from it and you will take what you learn into the next relationship or the next boy you meet and like...and believeme...there will be MANY MANY boys....in fact, I would venture to say that is why it hurts so much...the first time you learn this you are trying to cope with it, analyze it, what IS this feeling I feel, why do I miss him so much....your mind is trying to wrap around it....like it tried to wrap around the flame or the bottle...eventually these slights wont hurt as much...it will take a much more important relationship, of a longer duration and a deeper love to match this level of hurt....so know that we ALL went through it, it HURTS, and it will be over soon..and new cute boy will be talking to you.
2006-11-01 15:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by docketfull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over him with time. He was and is your world at the minute and sure you will be upset and long for him for a while but as time goes on any you meet new people, your feelings will change. Its the classic, ''if i'd have done that, would things be different'' scenario. You are constantly wandering if you had asked him out, whether you could have been together and he would finally return your love. But letting this thought eat away at you all the time, isnt healthy. We all regret things and wish we could turn back time and act differently, but we cant sadly and everything happens for a reason. I hope you feel better soon and although things seem pretty bad at the minute, you will feel better soon.
2006-11-01 15:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear ..I cried 40 times in 4 months..guess get around people that make u laugh...I told someone that I got called old/fat/ugly/whore/liar and they laughed their a s s off and said with big smile just the kind they are looking for..so just because having bad day today ..it will pass honey get around someone who jokes and laughs.. u will cheer up ...ok... if u love and live u will have "no regrets ...Trust Me"...keep living keep loving...good luck!!
2006-11-01 15:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is a way to get over a dude you really like.. it all just takes sometime. try to see if he has a myspace or facebook account... if not then good luck to you and just think about the fun times ya'll had together.. dont think about the bad things...
2006-11-01 15:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, it seems like you are young...it will be many that you like and they will get away. Have fun and try to get out. Mingle and find a new friend that will grab your waist and poke it.
2006-11-01 15:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Virgo Fa Sho!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over him is not the solution. Sitting down w/ him and telling him how you feel is the solution. Trust me. Pray on it.
2006-11-01 15:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by MiamiChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww hun im sorry.. The best thing you can prob' do is just try to keep yourself busy, to keep your mind off him... Try to spend as much time with your friends as you can... Best of Luck hun!!
2006-11-01 15:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋