I asked her why and she said she can't help it but won't say more.
Do any other women out there do this or have any other guys had this happen to them.
2006-11-01 06:58:29 · 55 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women have tons of hormones going crazy every month and
sometimes when having sex. The endorphins hormones start to kick in, this causes women to be really happy or sometimes it makes women crying for joy. Is not that she's in pain, do you guys have passionate sex?...if yes there's the answer.
She is very please and those tears are just caused by hormones.
She is right she can't help it, just be glad you've done a good job.
2006-11-01 07:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sabine 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Orgasms cause a release of endorphines. A sudden flood of endorphines can cause a minor psychological break. I'm sure she feels weird about it too...but it's normal. It's not an indicator of anything bad...actually it indicates that you did something right (by making her orgasm).
She is NOT crazy, although she probably feels like it at the moment... It's one of those things where women can be hormonal and can't quite control their emotions (yes, I am a woman too, so no offense ppl). Again, totally normal - happens to MOST women when they have insanely good orgasms. Orgasms are a "release" - so let her cry for a minute, she'll feel better afterwards.
This is the real medical/psychological answer. I cannot believe so many people are advising you incorrectly =(
It is so ULTRA COMMON that I'm listing resources:
2006-11-01 07:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've enjoyed my man so much that it's brought tears to my eyes before ... not crying or anything ... just a few tears of being super emotional and having an orgasm at the same time ... women are crazy .. lol .. if it's tears of pain then I'd stop what you're doing ... other than that don't worry about ... keep up the good work .. !
2006-11-01 07:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay.
This happens when you make love.
You asked why, she can't help it and won't say more....
I disagree with most of the other replies. These are not tears of joy or happiness. If there was pain involved you would be aware of that, so its not pain.
It is emotional. I suspect that she would like to hear some commitment from you and she is afraid to say that to you out of fear that she will lose you.
2006-11-01 07:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by Cymbaline 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be, like some said, that you are hurting her and she is too afraid to admit it. But also, just like someone cries "happy tears," this could be the case. When you are crying happy tears it's not because you are happy, it is because you have been building up emotion and a certain even set you off enough to release the emotion. This could be what is happening when you make love. You might try to communicate with her outside of the bedroom, see if something is wrong.
2006-11-01 07:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia S 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You know that has happened to me in the past, but I just kinda hid it and did not let it show. With me the problem was that it just did not feel right, either an argument or some emotional feeling I had made me feel like I should have not been having sex with him at that moment. Like if he was acting cold to me or acting distant and then we had sex, I would cry feeling that is was not meaningful to him. I hope I am explaining this right because it is kinda hard to explain.
2006-11-01 07:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Something or someone is making her uncomfortable during love making. I'd start with your relationship. Ask her if she's feeling connected to you still? Is there something you might need to work on? Is she feeling loved/wanted? If this doesn't get her to open up, maybe she's having thoughts of someone else and is upset by her thoughts.
Just try to engage her in a loving and honest discussion. Chances are she just isn't getting that emotional connect to you that a lot of women need in order to enjoy love making.
2006-11-01 07:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
are you sure she's not crying out of frustration of being with you and is trying to give you a subtle hint she doesn't want to be with you and her only way is to scare you and that way you would leave her.
Maybe you are one well en downed man well then you have serious problems she will always be crying ummmmmm, I have alot of girls as friends and most of them have never told me that they cry when there having sex, only maybe if they know that was the last time before they are about to dump him or get dumped emotions??? or maybe she needs to go to the GP and have her self checked out for cysts or something gynaecological which i know i have spelt incorrectly.
I could give you the same answers as the others but that would sound just to similar you need to look down other avenues
2006-11-01 07:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by hotindian 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I used to, and sometimes I still do... I cry because I love him so much.... and making love is just that.. its an expression of how much you love each other, how deep your love is for one another.. i would just hold her... let her know how much it means to you too .. she'll be alright after a while, it's just that some women take a while to get over this stage.... i still haven't and she might not either.. it just depends on her.. so just tell her how much you love her, and tell her that you understand, ok?
Good Luck!
2006-11-01 07:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is really in love with you and when you make love to her the emotions get to her. This is from experience do not listen to some of the anal things that is written here. I have cried when i made love to my kids father. It was because my feelings where strong for him. THE KEY WORDS ARE LOVE MAKING. Its not just sex it is much more for her.
2006-11-01 07:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by L@M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋