ive been dating this guy for almost a year, but he went to college so hes never around. a while ago i started talking to another guy online, and i really like him. ive cheated on my boyfriend before and i promised id never do it again, but i find myself wanting to really bad. im thinking maybe i should break up with my boyfriend and try things with this new guy, but i love my boyfriend sooo much! i can see us spending the rest of our lives together. and then theres always the possibility that if i break up with my boyfriend, the other guy wont want to go out. i really dont know what to do. someone please help!
2006-11-01 06:55:44 · 12 answers · asked by Natalie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships don't work out well, you guys should talk about this. I mean if he really loves you he will talk to you about it, and you can decided together what to do. Tell me if this helps or not.
2006-11-01 07:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Caitie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be way more than TWO guys to choose from. Breakup with the BF and try out the new guy. I know what you will probably do is cheat for awhile until you think the new guy is hooked and THEN dump the BF, just know that is not the RIGHT thing to do. Either way, forget the BF, he's in college, lots of girls there, he'll find a replacement and do NOT keep him just cause the thought of that gets you jealous, you can't think that especially when you are sitting here figuring out how to get down with a new guy.
2006-11-01 14:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by docketfull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not committed enough to your BF that you are considering cheating, then you should break up with him. Tell him you are finding the long distance relationship isn't working for you.
However, you should not rush out and start dating this other guy. Take some time to discover who you are and what your want. Go into your next relationship with a clear head.
2006-11-01 15:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wundt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are emotional. You love your boy friend but you can't control your feeling and emotional needs. When he is not around, you can't hanlde your lonelinss that is why you start liking someone you talk online.
Having friends are OK, but when you come to chossing life partner, it is not simply emotional games or romantic love. At this moment, you don't need to decide who to cling on, but give yourself time to know your friends. Treat both of them as normal friends until you are sure who you want to carry on with.
2006-11-03 08:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take it from me. Cheating hurts all parties involved. Don't try to have your cake and eat it too. You will always meet prospects that seem better than your current boyfriend but the grass isn't always greener.......
Don't be greedy and mess up what you have. If you cheated before and he took you back....What are you thinking?
That would be so selfish of you.
2006-11-01 15:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just have to ask: if you love your boyfriend so much, and want to share the rest of your life with him, how come you want to cheat on him?
2006-11-01 15:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with your boyfriend. Let him be free to do his own thing while you figure out what you want. Don't be selfish. You don't sound ready to be in a committed relationship.
2006-11-01 14:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u love someone you will not cheat and u would not be having thoughts about someone else and thinking about breaking up with him id say put yourself and your boyfriend out of your misery good luck
2006-11-01 15:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u see ure self happy with ure boyfriend then why waist ure time with anyone else it's only going to bring heart acke or drama. Plus u don't even know him
2006-11-01 14:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honorable thing to do is break up with your boyfriend, if you want this other guy. And if this other guy don't want you; well, that's the price we pay by our decicions.
2006-11-01 14:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋