I haven't talked to her (or the ex) for years. I recently found out he got or is getting married. She did a lot for me and i recently found out she disowned her son for getting married.
2006-11-01 06:55:18 · 33 answers · asked by CherrySundae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are calling because she did a lot for you and you are grateful about it and think you might be able to help her at this difficult time for her, then yes, but if you are calling because she disowned him and if you think the two of you will be on the same side and against him , then maybe you shouldn't...I'm sure theres a lot more small details to take into consideration that I do not know...so this is just my two cents
2006-11-01 07:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by aqua 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were on good terms with your ex mother-in-law, definately call her. Try to find out what made her disown him because of his upcoming marriage. You could be a great comfort to her and help her deal with her feelings. Also, if you can help reconcile them, you'd be doing her a big favor. No good can come of a mother and son not speaking. People seem to regret their decisions when they get older and sometimes wiser but it can then be too late. If you still care about your ex, step in. Make the effort and whatever happens, you'll know you did a good thing.
2006-11-01 07:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Murray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not kept contact up until now, that it is probably advisable not to call. By doing that you may be putting both of you in a very uncomfortable position. If you really feel like contacting her, purhaps a handwritten letter is best. Leave out the disowning part, and just mention how greatful you are for how she helped you and hope she is doing well.
2006-11-01 06:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to call a ***** that disowned her own son for getting married?No don't call her unless you want your child to be around such an evil person,and just to let you know the lady doesn't give A **** about you either otherwise you would have talked a long time ago wake up!
2006-11-01 06:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't talked to her in years...i'd say no. and think about the real reason you want to call her. if it's because you got along really well when you were dating her son and you want to reestablish the connection then sure go ahead. or are you only calling because you found she disowned your ex?
2006-11-01 06:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it depends on how close you guys were. I mean if you haven't spoke to her in years why now do you want to speak to her? If it's just to find out what's going on in your ex's life i would say no but if it's just because you actually had a good relationship with your ex mother in law then I'd say go for it.
2006-11-01 07:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were close before you should call her. Just remember that he is an "ex" and should be left in the past, by contacting his mother you are opening the flood gates.
2006-11-01 06:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by alysinvunderland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, call her. She still remembers you and if she did a lot for you, it means she likes you. Call her. It's always fun to get calls from people you haven't heard from in years.
2006-11-01 06:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can. Still that may be a little awkward for everyone involved. It can't hurt to try though. Do not butt into your Ex's life though. That is a mistake. Let him live it the way he wants. It is his choice.
2006-11-01 06:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by localgod208 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a relationship ends, doesnt mean the your friendship with the parents should have to. They had nothing to do with the split and therefore, nothing should be taken out on them. I would definitely call her and renew your friendship.
2006-11-01 06:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋