my sister is sleeping with anything with pants on , she just got married two weeks ago and i get along with the guy , if i tell him i loose her , how do i handle this , ignore it ?
2006-11-01 06:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-01 07:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by i swallow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF...you really want to look out for your sister and your new brother-n-law, and do not want each to come in contact with a sexually transmitted disease, you could always send a typed anonymous letter to your brother-n-law with no obvious sign it being from you. You can add in the names of the men you know for a fact that your sister is having sex with and that this letter is not only for the dishonest thing your sister is doing , but also for the safety of your brother-n-laws health along with your sister. You can always leave the letter in a place you know he will find it or receive it and your sister WILL NOT find it or get a hold of it. I only write this, for the fact of getting involved in it, due to the safety (health wise) of both your sister & brother-n-law. The Marriage will either fail or it will work through this time of trials and dishonesty.
2006-11-01 15:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by U Looking At Me & Me Looking At U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard. Maybe you should talk to her about this. Explan that this is not what you do in married life and she's got to make a choice. But at the end of the day, it's good you care but they need to sort it out between them.
2006-11-01 14:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your sister about the consequences of what she is doing.....I'm sure that she is aware of what she's doing. Evidently she didn't take her vows serious. It's not much for you to do other than to talk with her. Encourage her to be a faithful wife. What's old to her is new to somebody else; she wouldn't like it her husband leaves. But that could happen. I am sure the ones that she is sleeping with is not worth her losing her husband over.
2006-11-01 15:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U don´t have to tell him anything. U need to talk to ur sis about it. Try to make her feel guilty for her actions. Let her realize how painful it would be for her if her husband was cheating on her. For Gods sake its newly married!
2006-11-01 15:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her first, tell her to do what's right and imagine how she'd feel if you were with someone and your partner was doing it to you. If she doesn't tell him, maybe you should. It's wrong.
2006-11-01 14:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by * 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. He will find out one way or another..
2006-11-01 14:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He will find out, but it is best you stay out of it. Let someone else do the dirty work.
2006-11-01 14:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
just ignore it
2006-11-01 14:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by lovely g 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋