Ok I admit Im not a nice guy. I tell folks this but they still think I am. Anyway, I have noticed recently at works and around home a lot of ladies are suddendly more than having a passing interest in me. I mean were in our 30's but man they look like they are in their 20's.. I noticed more ladies wanting to come over, or even spend time with me. I even tried to put the nice guy act on a couple to drive them away and yet they keep comming.
this is happening to a couple of nice guy friends of mines as well. My question is when did being nice, firm , sweet, and respectful become the thing.. DOnt get me wrong its nice, but Im so use to ladies wanting bad boys or jerks and suddendly to have them show more than just hi and by interesting is well interesting
2006-11-01 06:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow shocking answers only because Im use to hearing I want a thug or a rough man. A soldier . I mean I use to say one day they will think differently, but now that the day has arrived its a little shocking..
2006-11-01 07:22:03 · update #1
any more theories on this sudden phenomen
2006-11-02 01:31:02 · update #2
Well what happens it, us woman like the bad guy early on in life. We think we can change them and some of us even have fun trying. As we get older, and more mature, we realize that what we want is a guy we dont have to change. One that already has all the qualities we want and one that is honest and caring. One that makes us feel secure.
Most woman who are ready to settle down look for the NICE GUY!
2006-11-01 06:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well in my case I never really was into the "bad boy" thing, at least in terms of long term relationship. Of course us ladies like the dangerous types, at least for the sex and such, but for commitment and other relationship issues, it's a different story.
I never did go for the "nice" guy type either... Although I always fancied a nice polite self conscious man over any other type... Hmmmm I guess it depends on the woman in question....
About your situation; I think it's because the ladies in their 30s today have had the chance to explore and experiment with the bad types when they were in their 20s, had their fun, and know what to expect from that type of male. Maybe these days they are looking to settle down with a nice guy? Who can really tell, right?
In any case, I don't thing it's a fad or fashion trend or anything like that; I think maturing ladies are becoming more in-tune with what's best for them, and such.
2006-11-01 07:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we are younger we like the bad boys to have fun with but when we get older we look for the nice boys because thats what woman want for a serious relationship they want the respect and the tenderness, they want a partner thats on their level, someone whom is hopefully not going to go out and cheat soemone who will hold down a job, take advatage of the woman thinking you are mr nice who knows maybe you will find mrs right
2006-11-01 07:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 17:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by gambrell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that it`s the thing because I am a nice guy and i`m still by my self.After what you said maybe you should`nt be so nice.It dose seem like all the butt holes get the girls.
2006-11-01 07:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE THEY ARE TIRED OF TAKING CARE OF THE BAD BOY TYPES. MAYBE THEY WANT TO BE TAKEN CARE OF FOR A CHANGE. RELATIONSHIPS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE FIFTY-FIFTY BUT THE GIRLS USUALLY GET 40-60. ALSO JUST MAAAYBEE GIRLS ARE GETTING SOME RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES.
2006-11-01 07:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by LIZAMAE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOMEN ARE STARTING TO REALIZE THAT THE MEANESS DON'T GET EM TOO FAR THEY WANT SOMEONE WHO WILL RESPECT AND LOVE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE SO NOW IT'S TIME FOR YOU MEN OUT THERE TO STEP UP OR GET NO PLAY!!!!
2006-11-01 06:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by ke ke 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who misled you into thinking nice guys are in demand? Just because bad boys are struggling doesn't mean nice guys got them. Girls just complain more often than they used to and stay single.
2006-11-01 06:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
it happened when the girls grew up a little
2006-11-01 06:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by spoonman 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋