Well I have been seeing this guy for almost to years he is older than me like about seven , I'm 20 and he is 27 , I am real mature for my age and I wanna really spend the rest of my life with him but afrid that once we get really settled that he will go for a younger girl ! what should I do I am at the point to were i wanna marry him and have a family with him am I gonna get bored with him , I mean everything is great the sex our realtionship and I really felt like it was love at frist sight when we really started to hang around each other ,... What should I do I am willing to risk spend the rest of my life with him i wonder if he will propose or i just dont Know please advise me !! Thanks oh yeah i am young Beautiful and modeling and around celbs everyday beacuse of the modeling
2006-11-01 06:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by Tabby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! that is a tough one lady. Marriage is a shot in the dark at best. There is no way to tell if you will get bored or if he will . People change several times from your age untill the 50's . The problem today is that the way we live and our society works against marriage. Sometimes the legal ramifications and the committment of marriage destroys relationships. If you feel strongly, go for it and hope for the best. Don't get caught in the power struggle mess. and don't get over burdened with debt. Don't think you have to have it all when you get married. Give your marriage a little time before having children. Good luck
2006-11-01 07:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by compassion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other answers are right. When he gets old, and fatter, you will be looking at studly guys 5 years below and 10 years above you. Besides, you're only 20 and yeah yeah yeah everyone says when you are that young you aren't mature and when I was 20 that's what everyone told me and I flipped them off, they don't KNOW ME..so here I am at 33 and I am telling YOU...you aren't mature enough, you will be a completely DIFF person in 10 years. You need to hold off. You can flip me off if you want but in 13 years you'll be leaving a post like this to someone's question, trust me.
2006-11-01 14:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by docketfull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, just by reading this so called question, I can conclude that your education is lacking, and you have a self image problem. If he goes after a younger girl, she is probably too young to be legal and would be a child molester. You do not sound at all mature for your age at all, so you may want to leave that off your future postings. You need to not worry about him at all, but get yourself to a position where you can take care of yourself and then worry about maybe getting married.
2006-11-01 15:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that unsure of his feelings for you, then leave. Personally speaking, you shouldn't even consider marriage with someone with whom you feel you cannot trust, whether or not that is warranted. And for you to start questioning him like this before giving the relationship a "real" chance, this shows that you are not mature enough to be in this relationship with him despite your claims of being so. And how can he go for a younger woman due to the fact that YOU ARE YOUNG.
2006-11-01 14:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 20? You sound like you're 10. You're an idiot, and not at all mature. Take your young, beautiful self and learn how to type a coherent thought.
2006-11-01 14:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by quack like a duck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is younger? You are 20 right? And no you are not mature, this is a dumb question!
2006-11-01 14:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Cowgirl Joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg celebs everyday how can u stand the temptation when he is just an ordinary man
2006-11-01 14:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by hombresteve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't leave for a younger girl you will probably leave for a younger guy....when you are 26, he will be 33 and starting to get fat and grey......you will regret it
2006-11-01 14:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by smones g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋