2006-11-01 06:27:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ignore him or tell him to p*ss off. I told mine to get stuffed when I was 28 - wish I'd done it sooner to be honest!
2006-11-01 06:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Very difficult question to answer - you give no evidence or examples whatsoever to back up your assertion. My partner is in a similar situation. He was miserable for years with his wife, who treated him with a total lack of love or consideration, no respect for his feelings at all, until he finally couldn't stand living with her anymore and left her. His son has never met with anything but love and kindness from him, and yet has behaved so badly towards him since he left. And that truly is all he's done - he left her. He's bent over backwards since the separation to be generous to her financially, but it's never enough, just like it was never enough for her when they were married, and for most of their marriage she refused to work even when times were really hard.
It's as if his son agrees with his mother that his dad doesn't count, isn't entitled to be loved or happy, should have carried on putting up with her appalling behaviour even though he was suffering as if he was burning.
It's the son who should be begging his dad to forgive him in this case but just like his mother he doesn't have the honesty or self-awareness to realise that his dad is entitled to be loved and happy, which he is, ever since we met some months after he left that woman. Sorry I sound so angry but I am - his ex and his son should both be ashamed of themselves.
I don't know if any of this is at all similar to your case but whatever your circumstances, you need to be scrupulously honest with yourself. What exactly has your dad done? Did/does he beat your mother? Does he keep her short of money? Genuinely short I mean, not just in her mind, because she always thinks she should have everything and he should have nothing? Does he sleep with other women? Or did he just want a little bit of happiness himself for a change, rather than just kill himself working to support an ungrateful, unloving family?
Look at other examples of people and their problems. Maybe your dad really is a lowlife - you didn't tell us anything so it's hard to know. But if all he's done is walk out of a miserable marriage, like my partner, then he's not a "poo" - he's just a normal human being who shouldn't be expected to stay miserable.
2006-11-01 16:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of Poo? Are we talking about Poo Bear?
2006-11-01 14:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does that mean you're a little poo??
2006-11-01 14:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by prettywoman 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Put him down the loo and flush him away
2006-11-02 15:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't clean up after him!! Let him carry on being a s h i t!!
2006-11-01 16:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we have some info pls
2006-11-02 09:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by sweetiesweetydarling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold ya breath around him
2006-11-01 14:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tread carefully when near him!
2006-11-01 14:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
be careful not to step on him, use a pooper scooper, bag him and bin him
2006-11-04 10:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by julie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋