on it depress me.FOR ex, i'm divorced, and i wish i could enjoy my kids, but they are very fresh i can't go out with them,they embarrassed me with their fresh language.I even cry on the street.
They are teens, my ex teached them that when they were little, to get even with me.He broke up with me, and i feel so lonely i wish i could have a boyfriend BUT it irritates me that a men i like doesn't
make a move to approach me, I DO.But obviously he might not like me, he only smiles and might say hi.I feel so desperate, i don't have energy,i don't want to do anything, i wish i die.My kids are out
of control,i never had the support of my ex, i always felt LEFT out.
On the other hand, i like the other men, i have done a lot to approach, but he doesn't say anything.what can oi do ???
HELP ? Please ! Everytime i see him i suffer, and i LUST.I'm afraid he might not like me.HAve any advice ?
2006-11-01 05:50:52 · 13 answers · asked by rssy r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look its alrigth ur life is still great compared to peoples in africa... they dont even know what yahoo answers is! so be happy and look on the bright side of things, ignore the bad things. I mean, if the sun would shine all the time, plants couldnt grow! They need the rain too! so do we - we need both happy and sad experiences to get through life. good luck!
2006-11-01 05:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel Ive been there too,you need to see a doctor as soon as you can if only to give you medication to help you get through this rotten time, when I left my violent ex I and the kids had nothing only the clothes that we stood in I was in a refuge for months until I found a home I didnt know anyone and my oldest daughter was starting with a servere mental illness Ive never been so alone in my life. But things will come into place once you start to feel better in yourself,my thoughts are with you.
2006-11-01 06:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can probably sense your desperation, get some professional help with you self esteem issues. Do some work on yourself and you'll attract the right guy. As for your kids, get a backbone, yeah Daddy may have taught them to be bad and even role-modeled that for them, jerks, it's an explanation for how they are it shouldn't be an excuse to act that way in front of you. Very disrespectful, they can only do to you what you let them do.
2006-11-01 06:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 2: Send the kids to live with their father and tell them they can only come back if they clean up their potty mouth.
Step 3: Stop looking depressed. That is why he has not approached you. If you feel as bad as you say then it shows in your appearance.
2006-11-01 05:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Joesmoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are desperate but you need to understand more about what drives you than a man. You appear to have a lot of problems with yourself and your kids, get that straightened out before you make yourself available. also this sounds sort of like you are trying to get even with your ex. if that is so more reason to get help
2006-11-01 05:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to break this too you but you are a MOM
that means you must discipline you children
make sure they know proper behavior.
You need to stop creating drama where men are concerned.
You will need to be stable your self before any one even remotely nice Will be attracted to you.
2006-11-01 05:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into counseling with your children and see why they feel the need to embarrass you, and you may want to tell your Doctor about this depression and see what they say.
2006-11-01 05:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up and be yourself. Quit hiding behind a bunch of worries!!! They will get you no where except upset at yourself!! Good Luck!!
2006-11-01 05:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step one: Get on anti-depressants
2006-11-01 05:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you do not allow e-mail, you can e-mail me if you want for a different perspective on everything.
2006-11-01 05:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Oghma Gem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋