When you are dating a girl and the two of you have ALOT of chemestry, and she is dating someone else also. And you ask her to choose. And she says "give me some time" what does that mean ? Does she want to date both of us and pick? Does she want to play us? Or does she want to decide between us and dump the other? Should i ask her what she ment? or let her come to me?
2006-11-01 05:33:44 · 23 answers · asked by Richard J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she sounds confused - maybe both of you have qualities that she is looking for in a man, and she doesnt know which of you are best for her - give her a month or so to decide - never give a woman an ultimatum - it will come back to bite you in the butt. if you think you could have a lasting relationship - you must be honest and tell her that you do not like the fact that she is seeing someone else- but until you have a commitment - you have to be there for her - or be gone - ultimately the choice is yours.....
2006-11-01 05:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be pretty darned obvious if you have to ask yahoo q&a. Dump her and move on. She's a player and is setting both of you guys up for an emotional train wreck. Get off and get out now. Do the dumping for her. Do you know the other guy? If so give him the heads up. Hopefully he'll listen and she'll be double dumped and left out in the cold and wondering why or how you guys read her like that. Ha ha. It's all her loss any way.
2006-11-01 13:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she enjoys the company and both sides of it, she likes the game of playing back and forth, I did it myself between to girls. One said I won't date you or go any further until you get rid of the other. I said give me a while. So a few weeks later I made the decision, we got along alot better then the other so I dumped the old gf for the new one, who in turn cheated on me and dumped me and I ended up with the original gf again and been that way for nearly 3 years now and enjoying it.
She will make a decision but it will be tough she has enjoyed the having 2 lifestyles and 2 guys, when she doesn't get her way one place she can go to the other.
2006-11-01 13:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by cubsfreak2001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She means she can't choose. There are prolly things about the both of yall she likes and she has to decide which things she likes better. Your bet is to let her come to you if she picks you she'll come but don't sit around waiting on her to do it play the feild yourself. there is a possiblity if she sees you doing that she'll get jealous and decide she wants you. Just don't wait around thats the worst thing you can do specially if she doesn't choose you
2006-11-01 13:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you both the same and she doesn't know which one to choose. If you're just dating then give her some room. If she decides she doesn't want to go to the next level then let her go.
2006-11-01 13:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Give me some time" is a stall tactic. She is not ready to committ to one or the other. I would not advise you to wait around until she makes up her mind because you may not be on the winning end of the decision. If you are looking for something exclusive she is not the one right now. Doesn't mean she won't be down the line but for right now, protect your heart.
2006-11-01 13:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Played!!
2006-11-01 13:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Saints friend 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She dosent want to be serious. She just wants to play around with the emotions of both guys. Avoid the broad!
2006-11-01 13:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She wants to play you both. Make the decision for her and dump her.
2006-11-01 13:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is confused about her fellings between the two of you.But if I wasn't first choice I would make the decision for them.And make myself first .If she cares she will decide faster and come back.
2006-11-01 13:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by martha g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋