how come when a girl cheats everybody wants to tell her dude. but when its a boy. it's a secret???????????????

Answer 1

I actually have to say there are a lot of stereotypes here, not just in the question, but in many of the responses. For starters, I HATE cheaters, male or female; either gender deserves to be exposed for their back-stabbing behaviour!

As far as which gender cheats more, even though it is the male depicted as such, I have to say I've come across far more women who cheat than men. I'm not sure why that is, but I do think the stereotypes need a re-think

Answer 2

If you've ever seen an adult cat's genitals, it's the same. Even from birth, male kittens have visually detectable testicles. You can feel them as well between the penis opening and the anus. Gently of course. If you've got a whole litter, chances are you'll have at least one kitten of each sex. Compare them. Males genitals look like a : with the space between for their testicles to grow. Female kittens have a smaller space and a more line-like opening like a tiny upside down !. As a previous answerer said, color can be indicitive. Ginger cats are almost always male (in domestic cats, purebreds are different) and calico/black, white & ginger cats are 99% female, and if they're not female, they're sterile. But really, a gentle feel will tell you for sure. Nuts, or no nuts, that is the question :P

Answer 3

This goes very back into time. This "ethical" thing that men are men and women have to loyal is completely invented by the patriarchies.
Since nobody can't question who the mother is, you can never be sure about the father. So the only way to be sure is to make women feel guilty about it and threaten to kill them in public by throwing stones so they are afraid for their lives.
And the whole thing was about one thing, That the children who inherited the family fortune, are not the neighbor's.
And don't forget. Women are more likely to cheat because our primitive instincts are still there inside us, and females in general have to find the best and strongest male to be the father of their babies

Answer 4

i think they do stupid stuff like that because it's not in a girl nature to cheat on her guy it;s in a guy nature to cheat so when they find out it's a girl cheating all hell breaks lose oh she's a hoe she's this and that, but little do they know they have been doing it for years and their still immature now they done drove women to cheat because they can't get what they need from them but i still say this all men do not cheat those are one's that's looking for a future with someone and so are most women.bottom line to find what your looking for you should not cheat if your not happy leave the person alone don't hurt them because what goes around comes back around.

Answer 5

People don't have as high expectations for guys as they do for girls. Not only is it expected for a guy to cheat, but everyone knows that if you tell a girl her man cheated, it'll break her heart. If you tell a guy, the response will be "whatever."

Answer 6

I don't mean to offend anyone but guys are more prone to this behavior. Not all guys but they do have a reputation of cheating. Everyone expects a more classy behavior from females. We live in a messed up world. I've always wondered this myself.

Answer 7

For guys it's almost like an initiation into manhood and it should be kept a secret from the female species.

Answer 8

Hey you do have a point there! It's only the dudes who are like that tho. Girls are more prone to tell everyone!!1

Answer 9

My ex and I dated for 15 months and she cheated for 10 of those. Nobody told me... I only found out when she told me a couple months after breaking up.

Answer 10

Becasue Society has a word for cheating ladies-a whore and nothing for a cheating Guys.