If a girl really hurts me somehow, should I tell her? Or would it be better for our friendship if I kept it in?
2006-11-01 05:26:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that it is never good to hold in hurt feelings cause they just grow and become so strong that you will eventually resent her.....if you are good friends then you should be able to tell her that what she said or did hurt you and explain to her why it hurt....communication is important in EVERY relationship whether it be friends or more!!!!
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-01 05:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone has hurt you telling them is always best. If you don't they may continue to do the thing that hurts because they are not aware of how they are making you feel. If you tell a person that what they are doing is hurting you and they make an effort to change then they care. If they continue to do these things you need to leave them alone because they don't.
2006-11-01 13:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her! You have to or it may happen again. If it hurts your friendship then she wasn't much of a friend. She should be willing to talk about it and understand why it hurt you and then she will know not to do it again.
2006-11-01 13:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's according to your friendship. If you two are going to still be really close then it is a good idea to let her know, although if she is a really good friend she will know anyways. If you two will only be together accasionally then I would keep it to myself. Some women feel satisfaction from this and it may help her bloat...
2006-11-01 13:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by crystalshannon516 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Keeping it in will only cause more problems than ya already got. Tell her what's goin on and if she's really your friend, together you can solve whatever it is she is doing that hurts you.
2006-11-01 13:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by J P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were she.... I'd want to know so that I wouldn't hurt you again.
2006-11-01 13:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by wdheemgo? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long youve known her maybe shes just kidding
better tell her
2006-11-01 13:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by daisymayNY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are a good trusted friend -- I think I would say something
If they are just a casual acquaintance---I would keep my mouth shut
2006-11-01 13:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to speak up unless you want it to happen again.
2006-11-01 13:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if she is a friend she will understand
2006-11-01 13:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋