I am well into my 30's and have never been married..........?

Question

I look good and am educated (school )M.A. and street (teen f-up) but moved my child to the middle of no where because I did not want him in the city. I can not leave this town for a few reasons. I met one guy and dated on and off 7 years. He has serious commitment issues ( never married , no children, partys very hard (days) but only around 6 times a year, workaholic (I think) but gave me a ring recently. We are engaged.

I love him but do not really have anything to campare it with, am I selling myself short, I never really dated , and I know that I am loyal and strait forward. Should I be thinking these things. ??

I work with children so my job does not present any dating opportunities. I was the youngest parent and oldest college student so those places were out, I do not drink so no bars.

Question, am I setteling due to lack of experience or am I fortunate and should not think of these things?

Answer 1

I didn't start dating or get married (first time for both of us) til I was almost 40.

You aren't selling yourself short if you love the guy and he's what you need to comlete your life.

I'm thinking the questions you have are normal for everyone no matter how much dating experience they have because it's a big commitment to get married and you should be very sure that it's the right thing to do before you say "I do".

Answer 2

I think you should stop selling yourself short and start dating more guys often and leave him alone because he is not the right man for you.no, you are not setting due to the lack of experience
but you're fortunate and should not think of these things because he is not all that to have you so stressed out.Have fun finding another man.