Last night my girlfriend and I went to a club and I saw a bunch of my friends for like 2 seconds said hi to them gave some handshakes and hugs but one of the girls was the girl I was sorta just interested in before I met my girlfriend.We never did anything but were just interested in eachother.Well I gave her a friendly hello hug and they went on their way.My girlfriend was drinking and actually thought it was my exgirlfriend cause her and this girl have the same name so she was really mad.Then we go out for a smoke and she starts talking to this guy and she says to him "you bought me shots that night" and then something like "I really enjoyed them" all with me like 2 feet away just listening.So after that I cleared up that the girl wasnt my ex-girlfriend and then she understood who it was.By this point she was drunk so the whole night shes saying she just wants to see her and where is she.But on the ride home she started saying how it was wrong of me to hug her.What do u guys think?
2006-11-01 05:22:34 · 6 answers · asked by con10twithlosing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just wanted to add and clear some things up.I'm 21 and shes 20 and we actually have a very mature relationship but last night for some reason we turned into "that couple" also I was probably over reacting about her talking to the guy cause i knew how mad she was and thought she was being spiteful.The reason im asking about this is BECAUSE we've never acted like this before and I hate it.
2006-11-01 05:50:03 · update #1
***It is impossible to make sense out of a situation that is grounded on heavy drinking. She clearly can not be judged on her actions unless she drinks very often and that becomes/ or is part of her.
You were not wrong to hug all of your friends..but..that 6th sense of many woman may have sensed a old attraction and then she could not really identify it or deal with it in her state.
You are only guilty if you had an exchange with the girl you hugged, that was not innocent. Still none of her business because only you know that and It is okay because but that part of your growing and learning and working on your character. (That part is none of any ones business) People need you accept your word . (You will spend years experience and growth making sure your words and actions line up.)
Bottom line. She should trust what you tell her. You hugged every one in those moments and then went straight to her. She should not have said what she did in the car BUT like I said she was intoxicated ) Just let it go. I hope I helped somewhat.
2006-11-01 05:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all that sounds immature!! First your girl was drunk so I can understand her acting foolish behavior but if she was actually mad about you hugging her that was wrong of her. But her talking to that guy is the same to me you can't hug some other girl if you don't want her talking to some other guy its got to be 50/50.
2006-11-01 05:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous and disrespectful. Next. Not that she shouldn't be jealous since it sounds like you might still be interested in the other woman.
You both sound like you have some growing up to do, and it's probably not going to happen together.
2006-11-01 05:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girl was plastered.
You did the correct thing explained.
if she is not mature enough to apologize then you might think about taking up with the other girl
2006-11-01 05:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like its scarey that she old enough to get into a club when she acts so childish people hug other people tell her to grow up...........
2006-11-01 05:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you two even old enough to drink my God what is this world coming too
2006-11-01 05:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋