im so sad can u help?

Question

i dont know wat to do omg i heard that my bf wants to break up and i truley love him!!!!!!!!wat should i do??

i kno he loves me too...i know i shouldnt listen to romurs but my best friend heard him say it maybe i should ask his best friend wat do u guys think?

Answer 1

1. chick flick
2. ice cream (your is your favorite) not a pint 1 gal. will do the trick
3. call a girl Friend
4. cry in to pillow no than 2 hr
5. meet a hot nice guy
6. and the hurt will leave ! ~¿Ô

Answer 2

Firstly what you hear could just be a rumour. Secondly, you should look out for tell-tale signs to see if he is on the verge of dumping you. For instance, is he calling you less often now than before? Does he still say I love you and kiss you like he use to?

If the signals he shows are obvious, you really need to confront your boyfriend about this but of course, not in a direct way. Perhaps you can take him to a place or meet up somewhere both of you can be alone. You can start like by throwing in a few compliments like " I always enjoy the way you look at me like that," or " You're the most wonderful guy I've ever met,". Be honest with your compliments. Later, share all the good times to him to remind him about the fun times both of you had together. Then, you can ask him questions like is there anything that you do that annoys him or hurt him? Maybe you can get some hint from there.

This is just my opinion. I hope it really works out.
Good luck!

Answer 3

I am sorry you are so sad because of this.

May I tell you this. I have been married and have raised two beautiful children who have become wonderful adults.

I have been by myself for the last 10 years.

During this time I have discovered both who and what I am.

You are not defined by someone else.

You are powerful, you are wonderful, you have great imagination, you are more than you may even know right now.

Please don't get stuck on defining yourself through someone else.

I encourage you to spread your wings and discover the person that you are and the gifts you have to share with the world!

☺☺☺

Answer 4

Let him know that you love him. Bake him cookies, set up a date to see a movie that he likes (not a chick flick) and set up a date by going on a picnic! :) Go paintballing, rock climbing, even go to the gym if you want! Do stuff that he likes and show him that you love him in the sweet little things. Also, tell him that you love him!

All that aside though, if he doesn't love you, then it will only hurt you more if you draw this thing out. He won't be happy with you and because he's unhappy, you'll be unhappy. If you want him to
truly be happy, then, if he doesn't love you, you need to let him go. He may not be the one for you. I really hope everything works out!

Answer 5

ask him directly don't listen to what others say becuase alot of the time their jealous of what you have. talk to him and if he says it's true, and you really love him then try to work it out. I'm gonna tell you from experience. me and my bf where together for 2 years but he lived in Atlanta for months at a time and i cheated on him and got pregnant. But we love each other and somehow we got through everything and now we're doing well and my baby's only a month old.

Answer 6

Hi, sorry to hear that, I do understand how you feel. Now to tackle it, ask yourself a million questions calmly and sincerely to yourself ONLY; what happened? what did I do? what brings this about? Why now and not before?

Sometimes things happen in a relationship without us realising that they will end up in a break up or something else that ruins a relationship. There are instances when a short break will eventually mend the broken heart, heal it and return to normal, there are others that make the partner difficult to stick in this relationship.

Now its your turn to examine very carefully what happened, write down points if necessary and discuss them in length and sincerely together in quiet place WITHOUT an audience.

I know you really love him, but if it turns out that trust has been broken, then we will cross that bridge when we come to it.

Start now, study it well and put yourself forward to him.

GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

Well, you can remind him of all the things you two shared. Let him know what he would be missing. If he doesn't see what a wonderful person you are, then he isn't worth your time and you should use that time to find someone that wants you just as bad as you want them.

Answer 8

Don't listen to hearsay .Because those same people who told you are probably waiting for you to react and actually you will end of breaking up the relationship

Answer 9

calm down dont worry....talk to him and if he truly want to leave find out why girl....
If he does he does ok let him go hold your head high and go out with your friends and have some fun....
Evetually you'll meet some one better and fall in love all over again...
Love is not repeat NOT a one time thing it will happen many times in your life dont worry ok just calm down and get back out there..
Load the hook up and wait for the right fish....
If you have need for someone to talk to im me on [e-mail]
ok keep your head up ok girl dont get down about it...

Answer 10

aw thats really annoying, that hapened to me aswell, to be honest i was really annoyed cos he had said it too all his friends and it was planned!! in a rage i rang him up and i broke up with him before he got the chance, to be honest it was the best thing i could have done!! he turned out to be a right gobshite a year later, maybe it wasnt the best thing i could have done to deal with the situation but i feel great about it now!! good luck whatever you do!