2006-11-01 05:11:57 · 16 answers · asked by dvdatlas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to her house, look her in the eye, and explain very nicely why it's not working for you, and then stop all communication with her--don't return calls, don't email, etc.
Don't make her drive somewhere--if she wrecks on the way home, how will you feel about that too?
It sucks, but you just do it and move on.
2006-11-01 05:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didnt they make a song along time ago about this..50 ways to leave your lover... get on the bus gus..take a train lorraine.. something like that..and a movie how to loose a guy in 10 days..if you dont get any info from the song or movie..well try just telling them.. heck they maybe thinking the same thing
2006-11-01 05:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by texlatina1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say that she has changed and is no longer the person that you fell in love with.
But do her a favor and be nice and let her down gently.
Say you still want to be friends and there's a chance that you will get back together with her that will make her feel a little better.
2006-11-01 05:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTY IS THE RIGHT WAY. NO BREAK UP IS EASY BUT EXPLAIN TO HER THAT IF IT DOESNT HAPPEN NOW IT WILL JUST BUILD UP RESENTMENT AND MISTRUST BETWEEN YOU AND YOU WOULD STILL LIKE TO REMAIN FRIENDS. KEEP IT SIMPLE ...TOO MANY DETAILS JUST ADD TO THE HURT. THEIR IS NO NEED FOR YOU DID THIS AND THAT WRONG OR I NEED THIS AND THAT AND YOU CANT GIVE IT... WELL YOU GET THE POINT. JUDT KEEP IT CLEAN,HONEST AND SIMPLE AND REGARDLESS OF ALL....JUST KNOW WHAT YOU WANT FIRST AND SHOOT FOR IT. MAYBE A FEW MENTAL PRACTICE RUNS WILL HELP YOU OUT. INVISION HOW YOU WANT IT TO TURN OUT AND PRACTICE WHAT YOU WILL AND WONT SAY. GOOD LUCK..I KNOW IT HURTS...I HAVE BEEN THERE. ON BOTH SIDES!
2006-11-01 05:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same way as if you hadn't been in it long...you tell your partner that y'all are no longer a good match...thank them for the good times, wish them well, and let them know you feel the need to move on...be as tactful and gentle as possible (treat them as you would like to be treated) but be honest and don't give them bs reasons that help you feel better...they deserve the truth...
2006-11-01 05:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take her to the first place you met her and ended there. Tell her you think this will not work out. It not you it me i just don't have that romance feeling toward you. That why we should go see other people ok.
Help this will help you.
2006-11-01 05:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by azn_tony2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being honest. It may be upsetting at first, but in the long run you will be appreciated for the fact that you were honest and didn't stick around playing pretend games. Good luck.
2006-11-01 05:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reasons. I would just tell her that this isnt going the way you wanted it to go and you think that you should go separate ways for awhile and still be friends.
2006-11-01 05:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to want to . Have you told them this and said it in a lets stay friends way?First put your mind to it and then decide where you want to be in the near future and do it.
2006-11-01 05:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight up and honest. get to the point. tell her why you dont want to be with her. dont beat around the bush.
2006-11-01 05:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋