I checked his e-mail and found out that his ex-girlfriend still talking to him, she asked him If she can meet him and she wants him back, she doens't care about me, she knows that I'm his girlfriend and finally she told him that she stills love him.
I asked him if he talked to her someday and he said that the girl just asked him how was it going and he wrote her one time telling her that he was fine.
I know that he lie to me, what can I do to know If he's still in comunication with that bytch...
2006-11-01 05:04:28 · 23 answers · asked by campanita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WTF were you doing checking his private mail? people go to jail for opening others peoples snail mail you know. I hope he does hook up with her again just to get away from your nosy jealous a*s.
2006-11-01 05:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by BBQ MASTER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. Men are not smart enough to cover their tracks when they are cheating. It seems they all read the same book when it comes to cheating. They all do the same thing, give the same tired excuses and eventually end up telling on themselves. If you feel he is doing something wrong, chances are he is. If he truly had no feelings for his ex, you would have found out from his mouth, not his email that she had written him. Most guys with nothing to hide would have told you about the ex and her lingering feelings. Don't start snooping because you may find something you are not ready for. Just sit back. If his lying continues, he starts doing things he doesn't normally do then he bares watching. And if you have just the right amount of patience he will tell on himself, because he is a man and not the brightest creature when it comes to infidelity. Good Luck!!!!
2006-11-01 13:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Traci G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation myself. I pull out all the stops to find the truth. He may have lied because he didn't want to upset you needlessly but chances are that is not the case. If you are starting to have doubts and he doesn't come clean you are going to be suspicious.
Trust your instincts they are usually accurate about these things. I stop at nothing including checking emails, phones and phone bills. I am also not above an unannounced visit on occasion. Those have proven to be very enlightening. I am not saying this is right or excusing my invasion but I don't deserve to be lied to and have a right to make decisions based on the facts and not lies.
Pay attention to details if things aren't adding up there probably is good reason. Good luck...start preparing yourself to ending things it may become necessary.
2006-11-01 13:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by Hopey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he doesn't want anything to do with his ex, but you gotta be careful. Tell him to be as most honest as he can. It's better when someone tells you the truth then lying and then finding out the truth from someone else. Maybe he lied to you and not to you what she really asked him so that you won't think that he's cheating on you. Also examine him. Is he acting different?Does he treat you like he did before?Does he say I love you?
2006-11-01 13:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hardly gonna tell you his ex just told him she still loved him; he'd probably have thought you'd get really suspicious. And besides, isn't looking through his e-mails behind his back just as bad as him lying to you?
I would just say be a bit cautious, that's all. I've been in your bf's position once, and I did exactly as he did. Didn't cheat on my girlfriend though. I just didn't want her getting worried.
2006-11-01 13:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not telling you the truth, then either 1. he wants to go back to her, or 2. he does not want to hurt you. You need to check his sent mail, to see what his responses were to her. Then you can judge where he is at.
2006-11-01 13:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, It's sounds to me like you already know the answer to your question. Oh.....don't forget know matter what he tell you, he not telling you everything. For fear of hurting your feelings or having you around while determining if he should take advantage of the ex. Good Luck
2006-11-01 13:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by iamME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If he says yes, go to counseling and try to resolve. Or you might have to break up. If he says no, believe him.
If it turns out he was lying, dump him immediately. You deserve someone who doesn't lie to you, and that you can trust.
2006-11-01 13:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him with evidence, and ask. Tell him that this does not look good for him, if he is hiding the fact that he talking to her, than he is hiding something else.
2006-11-01 13:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by Skuya!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfourtunately, there is nothing you can do I mean you can fight and fight and hold on to him as hard as you can but he chooses to be with someone else.....it sucks I know but you've already approached him and you say he lied to your face well then he's not for you...move on....sorry I had to be so straight forward
2006-11-01 13:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is confront him. It sounds like he's lying to you so tell him that you know she wants him back and ask him how he feels about it. See how he reacts to that.
2006-11-01 13:09:15 · answer #11 · answered by texirocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋