Hi all need some advice. Where i work theres been this guy ive had my eye on and thought he liked me but havent had the guts to do anything as of yet. The thing is weve had three new starters. Ive had to train one of the gals up and hes trained one of the others. The thing is he went to the office shop with her just before he went to move jobs to the office next door which was a few weeks ago and today they went to lunch. Im not overly worried as she has a boyfriend but i just wanted peoples opinions. Have i blown my chance or is she just over friendly
2006-11-01 04:52:59 · 11 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you think ive blown it
2006-11-01 05:00:13 · update #1
He doesnt tend to go down the canteen apart from his mate im just wondering if she didnt ask him
2006-11-01 05:05:32 · update #2
Forget her, she is trying to learn her job. But if you are that interested, then why don't you ask him, How about going out to eat after we knock off? That will be a start. or bring him a sandwich for lunch, Say to him, how would you like to join me for lunch? I hope everything works out for you!
2006-11-01 05:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave it too long to make a move. My current partner did that with me and i ended up in a relationship with someone else for three years. But when it ended we did finally get together and this last year of my life has been the happiest so far. So all's well that ends well but she was kicking herself for those 3 years wishing she had done something sooner.
2006-11-01 05:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by mark w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you blew it because there was nothing to blow. I dont think he's interested in you that way. It didn't take him long to be going out the the new girl for lunch right ? He could have asked you too if he was interested.
2006-11-01 05:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haent blown it ask him out right now and he'll be flattered make sure you mention that you were nervous to ask him and he'll be well impressed that you plucked up the courage. other girls just a mate no worries there.
2006-11-01 06:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by String of pearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't over think this situation. If she is in a relationship then it should be fine. If they are both flirting then you should be careful because that means he doesn't respect relationships of others. Be careful.
2006-11-01 04:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by 180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you may have blown it but if you want that guy you go get him and dont let any other lassie stand in your way. i dont let anyone stand in my way thats how i still got my man. that and the fact he loves me. so go on girl go get him. good luck
2006-11-01 04:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out...dont give someone else the chance.
2006-11-01 04:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry...she is just blowing her chance.
2006-11-01 04:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aye
2006-11-01 05:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you blew it.
2006-11-01 04:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋