2006-11-01 04:40:19 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First girl, I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend and you splitting. I remember the last break up I went through. I was in college and had to leave class every 20minutes to cry in the bathroom. I even made myself sick over it once.
You just have to let yourself grieve at first, and once you get over the initial shock you will start to be less physically emotional. Surround yourself with your best girl friends and have a cry fest. For now, you'll just have to allow yourself to be emotional. Eat whatever you want, and whatever you do, don't hook up w/ the ex. Its bad for your feelings. Good luck girl..I know it hurts.
2006-11-01 04:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jazy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally the best thing to do is find a rebound boyfriend. Although its probably not the smartest thing to do it helps. You could call a bunch of your girlfriends and go shopping or go see a movie. Stay away from love stories. Love stories and ice cream make everything worse. First you feel all sad because your watching a bunch of ppl happily in love and then you will feel that no one will love you because you just ate a gallon of ice cream and you feel that you look fat. All of us girls have gone through this situation one time or another. If sucks but believe me it gets better each day. Friends are the best medicine.
2006-11-01 04:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Atavan
watch Old School - replay the birthday party scene
watch Napoleon Dynamite - replay the dance scene
watch Drop Dead Gorgeous - replay Brittany Murphy's interview scene
watch Ancorman - replay the News Anchor Rumble scene
take another Atavan and sleep.
2006-11-01 05:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if both of you would talk about it. and figure out what both of you want maby you can be together again. If not, get over it. it aint the end of the world. there is plenty of guys out there. Let go. and forget him. get rid of any pictures of him, You have a life, live it the way that would make you happy. But dont turn to Drugs or Drinking for fun. Find you a real good guy and get on with your life.I wish You The Best.
2006-11-01 04:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by mswildman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not supress that crying as years later all that supressed crying would result in depression that you will have to fight for no rhyme or reason. So get him out of your system now that it is happening naturally, just remember that each time you cry you are actually purging your ex out of system and avoiding unhealthy weight gain or mood swings, call on your angels to take you through it, you are not alone even in your darkest hour.
So I suggest let it happen, and be glad that it is happening as otherwise so many people have such a tough time letting go, your body is already doing that for you. And once you are all clear you are only making space for some one better to fill in that space in your life.
2006-11-01 04:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spend one night watching luv movies and crying your eyes out and eating chocolate. Then get up in the morning eat healthy, go to the gym and do a few fun exercises and go to a club that night in something a little short, red, sparkly, and just a little small. Then when ever you feel sad go to the gym and work out for about half an hour. You will feel better. Or just go for a run. Good luck.
2006-11-01 04:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by mybizyagottaknowthat2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know a lot of people will tell you to take anti-depressants or do yoga, or get dressed up and look a million dollars or get revenge, or go out and have fun with your friends. I'll be straight up with you hun you just want to spend a little time to yourself and have a bit of a cry to get it out of your system. Then, and not too long mind, get out and I guarantee you will have forgotten it all as soon as you get your first passionate kiss from a new guy. Hearts heal but give them a chance and get your confidence back
2006-11-01 04:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie...You need to take a deep breath. There is a decent man out there for every female. The reason you dumped him was prolly the best thing for you. Pick up your shoes and live life. Beleive me love is out there just waiting for you. Live and learn. Life is once you have to be in it to enjoy it. It could be worse...I lost my fiancee over 1 1/2 yrs ago someone killed him on a snowmobile...I am still gong up and down but, I refuse to sit by and let life take me without a fight. Good luck !!!.LL.
2006-11-01 04:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No matter were the pain comes from, grief takes time and in that time keep yourself busy with friends and things you like to do. Pretty soon you will notice your crying less often. Just hang in there, you will be o.k.
2006-11-01 04:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some St John's Wort - homoepathic tablets. I was recommended them I was feeling a down and they really helped.
Also Bach Flower Remedies - a few drops in water.
(BTW I'm not a hippy, just found these worked for me)
2006-11-01 04:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Oakesy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋