i'm 19 and i'm in love with this boy at school.
he does not want to go out with me, but i really love him.
help me please.
2006-11-01 04:25:20 · 12 answers · asked by Pringuita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your young, and you'll soon learn that alot of times guyz will like you and you just don't like them. and sometimes they won't feel the same way you feel. what you feel in your heart is something beyond anything... and no one can ever change what you feel, and you cant change what he feels. sorry.... there will be others! TRUST ME!!!
2006-11-01 04:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lolis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, let me ask you this. How can really love someone but he doesn't want to go out with you? I not being a smart aleck just asking. If you've made the move to ask him out and all that and he still hasn't went out with you, move on. Find someone that will go out with you and you can pursue a real relationship. Or if you don't want to do that, ask him why he doesn't want to go out with you. You can find out 1 of 2 things. (1). He is an azzhole or (2). Maybe you're not his type. But other than that don't worry. You're only 19, and really shouldn't be looking for love right now. Obviously you're in college and should be going out and playing the field. Don't waste all your time and energy on an inconsiderate jerk who won't even give you a chance and see who you really are!!
Hope i was help
keep ur head up
xoxo
beauty and brains
2006-11-01 12:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Chocol@t3 K!$$3$♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That same thing happened to me once (many years and years ago) man I'm getting old! Ha Ha Anyway I was so in love with him that I would walk all over town trying to find his house even, I would follow him in school and anywhere he went incognito that is. I did this for 2 years.... well finally one day he noticed me and we started dating, got en-ganged then I decided after all that he most defiantly was not the one!!!So what I'm saying is keep your eyes open there's more than just one out there. sunnydays
2006-11-01 12:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not in love, but in lust. To love a person you have to know them inside and out. Their good and their bad and be willing to accept them for all of their faults.
You cannot make a person care for you, so there is nothing anybody can do. You are going to have to accept that fact that he is not interested in that way and find a way to deal with it. There are plenty of people out there, and why waste your time loving somebody who does not love you back.
Keep looking and you will find that person one day.
2006-11-01 12:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt you're in love, you're probably only infatuated with him. After a while of him not paying attention to you, you'll eventually move on.
Give it time. Or find someone else. A new crush will help alot.
2006-11-01 12:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know maybe coming from me but umm you have your whole life in front of you if he doesn't wanna be with you just move on i know it easy said then done but trust me no one dies from it... i never did your young there are a lot of boys out there dying for you.... live life to the fullest....GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-01 12:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Erica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you be love with someone who doesn't wanna go out with you. move on you should be with someone you loves you, not the other way around, he's nothing but mistake about to happen.
2006-11-01 12:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want you, the only help you need is for yourself, dear. Let it go. Work on your self-esteem, He is not the only guy on Earth. He doesn't want you. Just move on.
2006-11-01 12:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on really hunny you can't make somebody love you.
2006-11-01 12:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flirt with him and eventually he'll come around. but don't get your hopes up.
2006-11-01 12:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Taco Bomber Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋