Me and my b/f have been dating for about 1 1/2 year, recently for about 2 months he hasn't really called me much and he tells me that he wants to be alone. I love him and I want to be with him but I really hate the way he treats me. In 2 months a probably saw him like 3 times, because I went over to his house. Last Sunday I went to his house to download music and we had sex, since then he hasn't called me. I really feel used and unappreciated. I want to move on because I know he wil not change, but I don't want to see him with another woman. I can't talk to him because he acts like a child and tells me he doesn't care.
Please give me some advise.
2006-11-01 04:23:59 · 19 answers · asked by KerryAnn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
been there done that time to move on girl
2006-11-01 05:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers that have been posted previously pretty much cover it--you have been played. The only thing you can do at this point is to make sure that you don't repeat this mistake.....and get this guy the heck out of your life. The guy said he wants to be alone-take him at his word. I know it must be painful to seperate after 1 1/2 yers. and you've probably grown attached, but you don't have that many options as far as staying with him. He's not going to suddenly start treating you as a prize, and if you wait much longer your self esteem will take a hit. He is not worth it! It doesn't matter whether he is with another woman--that's also something you can't control. It's something else you'll have to accept. Make yourself the priority and do whatever is necessary to take care of yourself. You need to live your life as if he doesn't exist. You may enjoy the fun of being single with many options--now get on with it! Luck to you.
2006-11-01 12:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD NEWS It's plain and simple I don't know why men do some females like that (for a challenge) but he hung around until he got the nookie and now hes' gotten what he wanted he's run I don't know how anyone can be with someone for a year and not develop any feelings, maybe its' revenge for something some men also, have a ego trip how many girls can he get and the longer and harder they have to work t to get the more fun it is SORRY
2006-11-01 12:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by jkfranklin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetie, I am sorry to inform but your BF is a real azz-hole! How could he do that? If you ask me that is very childish of him. He got what he wanted and jetted. He was worth any of your time anyway. You need to let him know that you don't appreciate what did. As for moving on, don't have second thoughts about him. Let him know that what he did was disrespectful. And if you see him with another girl, just think to yourself that at least she doesn't know what she's in for. He sounds real shallow and he doesn't know what he had.
Hope I was help
keep your head up
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2006-11-01 12:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Chocol@t3 K!$$3$♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him and avoid all contact. If you know that it's over, then you don't need to do the whole brake up thing, it will just make you feel worse. Move on and find someone who actually appreciates you and will make time for you.
I've dated alot of guys like you're boyfriend and I know how they are. He probably won't change, but you don't have to put up with it.
2006-11-01 12:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jane D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you for sex sweetie. He is not interested in you at all except for sex. Dump him. If he acts like a child when you try to talk to him get rid of him asap. He will always be like that and you deserve better. Find someone who likes you fo you and not just for sex. Lookout for yourself number 1 and don't let guys use you because it is not worth it.
2006-11-01 13:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you my dear lady are being used. the only time he is interested in you is when you have sex. just tell him the relationship is over and move on to someone who would be interested in you for who you are and not just for sex. if he is not the right person for you then it won't matter if you see him with another woman,at least he won't be using you anymore
2006-11-01 12:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad it happened to me just to me, I was dating a man for about 3 months & we talked everynight on the phone & weekend, now I don't hear from him much anymore. I would just walk away from him & if it's meant to happen he'll call you or come back.
2006-11-01 12:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by mssassy0104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is doing that he is probably interested or seeing another woman already so i would move on cause thats the only reason i would avoid my girlfriend for 3 months
2006-11-01 12:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you have been a victim of a jerk. In life it happens. Pick up the pieces and move on. Do not call anyone who will not call you.
2006-11-01 12:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you have no choice but to let him go. You can't make someone want you. He has made it clear how he feels but isn't willing to do anything about it. Give him what he wants and leave him. If he cared about you, he wouldn't do this to you. Let him go, heal and take care of yourself, and date someone new.
2006-11-01 12:30:41 · answer #11 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋