She got accepted ito nursing school and has to work when she is not at school. I know she is under a lot of stress. We saw each other 3 days ago for the first time in 7 weeks. She came to paint my niece's room. I was determined not to go, because she is the one who wanted the break. My sister called and told me that she kept asking why me and my little boy were not coming to see her. Me and her are both divorced and my little boy, who is precious, is from my previous marriage. I am 27 and she is 24. Needless to say, I loaded him up and went to see her, because my sister thought I should. It went really well, I asked if I could call and take her out and she said yes. I also asked her if she wanted me to call her everyday, and she said maybe not every day. I truly love this girl with all of my heart, but I don't want to push her away, but my patience is running out. I don't want anyone else, but I think maybe if I go out with someone it might make her realize I am tired of waiting. Help!
2006-11-01 04:19:00 · 5 answers · asked by baseball man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude be a Man. let her come for you. let her make the move. You are doing to much by asking if she wants you to take her out or if she wants you to call her. When you ask stuff like that you give her the power and she knows she can walk all over you if she wants. You let her come to you. If she really wants you she eventually will. Just show her you lost interest and if she wants you she will do anything to get your attention. Then you will have the power in the relationship. Just don't be a baby about it and act like you can't live without her. that turns girls off. Like the girl I was with last night and woke up with this morning. She is 24 and was dating this 27 year old guy that was always acting like he couldn't live without her. They took a so called break from each other and she hooked up with me. Well they didn't see each other for about 7 weeks and she saw him the about 3 days ago and she thought she would give him another chance and there he was acting like he couldn't live without her so she got turned off again and was back with me at my place. No just kidding dude I am not banging your girl but just trying to give you something to think about if you act like you just need her so much. it turns girls off and they go to guys who don't act like that.
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2006-11-01 04:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to really love her. Go ahead and give it some time and take it back to the dating stage. After a while, have a talk with her. I'm sorry but after 7 weeks of not seeing a guy I've dated for the last 2 years, I'd be damn near distraught! I'd damn sure have an idea as to whether or not I want to pick things up again. From what you've shared, she really did need and want this break. There is a chance that she just doesn't want to be with you anymore but isn't sure about what to do next.
2006-11-01 04:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to take it quite sluggish. Why did she want a wreck to commence with? Take that into interest - if it became in basic terms pressure from nursing college then now that she's customary there should not be too a lot of a challenge. If she became apprehensive about the relationship or perhaps if she needed to be with you, then you definitely did the right component by technique of giving her area. even as she requested for you that became also a good signal! possibly she is starting up to understand issues in her existence and what SHE quite needs! even if it really is you and he or she feels an same way about you then you definitely received't ought to pressure about speeding her or pushing her because she will be able to COME TO YOU! do not ask her to do diverse stuff or go everywhere with you except she by some skill tricks round then ask. issues will workout consultation and that i imagine she already is conventional with that you're in love such as her - as long as you dont run off and screw yet another woman because she left, then you definitely would not have too many issues. :D She'll commence determining on up the %. yet you want to be affected human being and wait somewhat.
2016-12-05 10:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel, then say she has to stop mucking you around or thats it
2006-11-01 04:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-01 04:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋