i had sex with him about a month ago, he was a virgin, and now i think i'm pregnant... and we're only 16... i'm scared he's gonna freak out
2006-11-01 04:16:37 · 19 answers · asked by cocoaash2021 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out first. Go to a doctor. There is no way to tell him that without scaring him, so make sure you know before you have to tell him. Go see a doctor, and next time insist on a condum!
2006-11-01 04:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to take a test...2nd...you're too young to know life enough that you're having sex now. You may think it's love but unless you KNOW you're gonna marry this guy you'll end up with only regrets and lord knows what STD.
If you're NOT pregnant...I suggest you change your relationship priorities from one where sex in involved to one where you focus on your FUTURE life and well being. You're young and you're going to hear men say things you want/need to hear, but the only man you should trust right now and give your heart to is Our lord and savior, Jesus Christ. If your dad is in your life you need to build a relationship with him because if he's NOT giving you the comfort and protection that every girl feels, you will look in the wrong places and do the wrong things....such as have sex at 16 w/ a possible pregnancy...
2006-11-01 12:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by DayLo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet your @$$ he's gonna freak. Damn, his first time and already a daddy. Shoot, he might freak out all the way into a whole nother world!!! Take a picture of his expression and show it to us.
Condoms......$5
Pizza and a movie.......$40
Hotel Room.........$50
Losing my virginity and becoming a daddy at 16......priceless!
I think he skipped step 1. Those $5 really cost him.
2006-11-01 12:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Eldude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, of course Evey dude that's only 16 is gonna freak out so just tell him softly if he loves you he will stay with you. i know how it feels to be pregnant at 16 well i was 15 but still just tell him you will never know until you try.
2006-11-01 12:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Baby G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first hun did you use a condom and you are only 16 your body could just be changing go to a free clinic and get a blood pregnancy test. 16 year olds are really emotional and if you are not sure yet don't mention any thing you will make look at you completely different. Make sure first AND USE A DAMN CONDOM and don't wild out having sex to ensure that you don't break the condom..............GOOD LUCK HUN>>>
2006-11-01 12:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by 806-203 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the store and buy a test. If you are pregnant, you need to tell your parents. If your not pregnant, you need to go on birth control or stop having sex. You're young don't mess up your life.
2006-11-01 12:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by abbylove123186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way of telling your significant other that you're pregnant, but when you do decide to tell him the two of you have to be alone with no interuptions so you guys can talk things out about the situation at hand.
2006-11-01 12:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by girl_is_depeche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say he is probably going to freak out especially since it was the first time and he knocked you up. But get tested and find out for sure first before you drop the bomb on him
2006-11-01 12:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out for sure before you say anything to him. That's what you need to do. Don't worry him over something that may not be. Sounds like you're trying to scare him into being with you again to be honest.
2006-11-01 12:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you don't want to take an after pill to terminate the possible pregnacy, I suggest you wait until your sure. Best way to lose a guy is to scare him with a bogus claim.
2006-11-01 12:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋