I really like this guy we went out a few times and every time I found out he was cheating on me everytime I for gave him I broke up with him 2 weeks ago on 10-22-06, I still really like him but I don't want him to cheat on me again
2006-11-01 04:11:27 · 27 answers · asked by Sexy kitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry hun.
This guy is a waste of your time since he's been cheating on you.
There are a lot of better guys that can treat you like a princess and not betray you.
You shouldn't be attached to people especially on those that hurt your heart.
2006-11-01 04:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by JenGen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can really tell you what to do in this kind of situation. People are normally on a far end of the issue. Some people say, "Once a cheater, always a cheater!" while others feel that people can change. It depends on how well you know him, really. You certainly do not want to be hurt again. Also, if you ever told him that you would not stand for it again then took him back, you will not be taken seriously. You can take him back if it is what you really want, but don't put up with behavior like that. You deserve better. If you chose to get back together, you need to make it clear that you will not stick around if you are not the only one in his life. If it happens again, I think it is pretty clear that he is not willing or able to change. Best of luck!
2006-11-01 12:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by 180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. I just got out of a really bad relationship too. He did the same thing ( Cheated) and a lot more. We went out for 7 months and I think some men are pigs and selfish and the rest are hard to find. Remember, it takes alot of pain in a relationship to know what a good one feels like. Keep your head up. If you really think that you want to get back together with him, then let him come to you. Just remember what I said.
2006-11-01 12:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will not stop. So you need to either accept that he will cheat on you or leave him.
My dad is like this and you know what, nothing is ever going to make him change. His current wife married him even though she knew he cheated on her a million times. He even left her birthday early with her best friend so they could sleep together. He lied to her about where and why he was going on vaccation and went on a week long holiday with another woman. Then she married him *sigh*(She thinks he won't cheat anymore, he will, probably has lots of times).
Some people can live happily and accept that they spouse/partner will have sex outside the relationship. If you are not one of these people leave him now. You can stay his friend but you are not meant to be together. He will not change. Definitly not without counselling and probably not even then. I love my dad dearly but that is just the way he is and it sounds like that is they way your bf is too.
2006-11-01 12:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not change any person. obvious this not the guy for you. if this guy really loved and cared for you he would not cheat on you plain and simply. he has obviously ran some good game on you to have you keep coming back. you have to stand up and realize that if he cheated on you twice he is just going to keep on doing it because you keep taking him back. he is not the guy for you and he is not the last man on earth so move on. also build up yourself confidence because that also plays a role as well. you have to believe that you deserve more than what he is giving you which is a broken heart.
2006-11-01 12:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by faithe_reid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER (WITH THE SAME PERSON). IF HE CHEATED ON YOU BEFORE AND GOT AWAY WITH IT AND YOU TOOK HIM BACK HE WILL CONTINUE TO DO IT. YOU MIGHT REALLY LIKE HIM, BUT IF YOU ONLY WENT OUT A FEW TIMES AND HE'S ALREADY CHEATING ON YOU, WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO START A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM KNOWING HE IS ONLY GOING TO CONTINUE THIS BEHAVIOR? IT'S NOT WORTH THE HURT AND THE PAIN. YOU DESERVE SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU AND ONLY YOU. BE WITH SOMEONE WHO KNOWS WHAT THEY HAVE WHEN THEY HAVE YOU.
2006-11-01 12:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by MISS SWEETS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you bf/gf or just dating? If you have been out with him a few times, that doesn't sound like a relationship just yet. Maybe he doesn't think that you are in a sole relationship. That maybe why he is seeing other people. Maybe you should sit down and ask him what is going on.
2006-11-01 12:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you dating this guy seriously or are you just going out with him? If you're just "going out", he can't be cheating on you even tho it may seem like it; but, if you both decided to date exclusively and he doesn't think that the "exclusive to you" part includes him, then you need to decide to move on...or to keep it casual until he's ready to make a commitment. But sounds like he may not be ready to be with just one person.
2006-11-01 12:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AN EX IS AN EX FOR A REASON!! You need to find someone else.. He will do it again and again... Leopards dont change their spots! Are you that desperate for love that you keep putting yourself through that kind of hurt and pain??
2006-11-01 12:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rochelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he be cheating if you are only dating and not in an exclusive relationship? You sounds like a crazy!
2006-11-01 12:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋