I really like him and want to stay with him! But i keep picking at things he does and he's really immature infront of his friends.
2006-11-01 04:03:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok well some of these answers are just plain stupid. Geez arguments happen in every relationship people if you break up everytime you encounter an argurment or disagreement you will be looking for that right guy forever.
First off, both of you need to just lighten up. I don't know what you are fighting about but many times arguments happen because of stupid disagreements (this is most often the case in younger relationships). Listen to what he has to say, have him listen to what you have to say. Try and find a compromise. The best couples are the ones that are willing to compromise (give a little to get a little). It doesn't always have to be one person's way or another.
Secondly, he is 16, he is going to be immature. Some girls are too at that age. Hell I know girls that are in their early teens that are immature and some guys too. Just remember he may be 16 but he is still a youth. Give it some time and try and help him along rather than confront him on it.
Finally if none of this works, weigh the pros and cons of the relationship. Can you see yourself with this guy in 5 years, 3 years, hell 1 year from now and more importantly do you want to.
BEst of luck with everything.
2006-11-01 04:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ, long winded? I thought it was gonna be like 10 things...to answer a few guys feel the same things girls do whether you can see it or not. The toughest guy has a place in his heart for a loving girl to fit. Trust me. IMO I just think a lot of guys that seem to be players have just become accustomed to women being "less than they expected" so to speak. Guys DEFINITELY are just as emo deep inside as women, but again it's an individual issue with varying severity. And yes when we do fall for a girl, we fall hard. Very hard. Just follow the Golden Rule to the T and you'll be fine.
2016-05-23 03:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say that you really like him but you think that he is immature, etc., what is the basis for your liking him. Perhaps you are finding fault with him because you would rather be with someone other than him, but haven't found a suitable replacement yet. And, at 16 you still have a lot of time to look.
2006-11-01 04:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep picking at things he does chances are you dont like him quite as much as you think you do. As for him being immature while he is in front of his friends...that is just what sixteen year old boys do. If it is stressing you out so much why dont you just distance yourself from him? Maybe break up with him and enjoy being by yourself and focus on school....am i sounding like an old hag?
Im sorry but I wish I would have listened to people when I was your age.
Good Luck
2006-11-01 04:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes to be picked at. You wouldn't like it either. Treat him as you would expect to be treated. If the relationship is toxic, end it. And another thing, most teenage boys are immature in front of their friends. It is in their job description, some get over it with age, some just get older.
2006-11-01 04:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both acting immature. Break up. Grow up,go to college, get a job, and then you'll find a good relationship where you don't pick on each other all the time.
2006-11-01 04:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are still young and immature. Don't expect him to grow up ANYTIME SOON. He will be like that for awhile. Youre only 16. take a break from each other.
2006-11-01 04:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn from this relationship, and improve yourself for when the right man comes along and youre more mature and ready for a serious relationship. dont break up with him, just try to figure out whats wrong with the picture and try to improve yourself. once youre satisfied with your new attitutde, dump him and move and stop looking. another guy will come along and youll be a better judge of character at that point, so the next relationship you wont make the same mistake again
2006-11-01 04:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by unkerpaulie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to adjust your attitude. If you're picking on the things he does, that means that you're looking for something to gripe about. And, as far as his actions in front of his friends, he's 16!! He is immature!! Expect him to act that way.
2006-11-01 04:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by My 2 Cents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time to end things now before anymore times goes by. Things will never get any better if they are rocky now. End it before you are old enough to get married and a bad divorce down the road. Good Luck.
2006-11-01 04:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋