every girl you get is really cool in the begining and then as soon as they find out that you a intristed in them they go insane. Your whole world has to evolve around them or they get pissed off at you. Why can't you hang out with your friends by yourself at least three times a week. without your phone blowing up with them bitching at you
2006-11-01 04:00:55 · 25 answers · asked by joe d 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont mean everygirl just some of them
2006-11-01 04:51:27 · update #1
your phone wouldn't blow up if its off
2006-11-01 04:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by J from O 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should say that every girl is this way. That's like saying every guy is an asshole. Which we all know is not true. What you should do is find a new girl that likes to have her free time also. While you hang out with the guys she goes and hangs out with the girls. And it seems as though you have a girl with trust issues. Good Luck finding a girl!
2006-11-01 12:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by cowchic9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are like that. You should be able to have time with your friends, but are you making the girl feel like your friends are more important? If so, then of course they are going to blow up your phone. If my BF is going out with his friends, he will call me before he goes, then maybe call me or text me once while he is out and then call me again when he is home. Just to let me know that he is thinking about me. I have no problem with him hanging out with the guys.
Its not that your whole world has to evolve around them, but sometimes its hard for a person to trust, they need that attention because of past experiences or low self esteem etc.. If the relationship is healthy and there are no trust issues, girls or guys should give there partners space. But sometimes you might just need to talk to them and assure them that they are important to you.
2006-11-01 12:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they apparently are totally insecure. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with wanting to be togther all the time, but you need to back up and give the other person some space. I've met quite a few men that are like that. It drives me nuts. But, definately, insecurity issues. Good Luck
2006-11-01 12:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a general rule that you need to go through at least 2 or 3 crazy girls before you find 'the one'.
By 'the one' I mean the one that isn't sooooo crazy that you want to run yourself over with your own car.
2006-11-01 12:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by panthrosbulge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to just go after a different type of girl. a lot of girls r like that... it gets on my nerves too. a lot of my friends are like that... getting p-off cause there "guy friend" never returns there calls ...it gets annoying hearing about it all the time, i never understand why they can't have a good time w/ out a guy. just look for a more laid back type chic. maybe u'll have more luck.
2006-11-01 12:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by Beyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dealing with chicks that's been screwed over by too many men!! I'm a girl and don't understand why some chicks are like that either, pretty annoying!! I know!! I think it's a trust issue!!
2006-11-01 12:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're dating the wrong girls, bruthah. Try finding one who has her head screwed on straight -- preferably one whose self-esteem doesn't revolve around having a man in her life. They're out there, but they're hard to find (and they're not always the hottest girls in the room; you might need to broaden your ideas of beauty).
2006-11-01 12:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um it seems like you need to quit looking on outer apperances cuz that seems to be what you are doing.. if a guy goes wit ha girl for their personality adn not their looks they will not do that and they will respect you hanging with your friends and being with her but not 24-7
2006-11-01 12:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bro, sounds like you aren't dating normal chicks. You just tend to attract those types. Don't generalize that we are all psycho. That would be like us all saying ALL men are *****, and we know that isn't the truth!
2006-11-01 12:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I resent that! My whole life never revolves around a guy and I don't want his too. I don't think girls should be so clingy, and neither should guys. Its stalker-ish, and I find it annoying and stupid
2006-11-01 12:03:39 · answer #11 · answered by Pursue Happiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋