Have any brides to be hooked up with the stripper at thier bachelorette parties or have any women witnessed brides to be doing this sort of thing at their parties.
Im about to get married and my Fiance's friends are havign a party for her with male strippers in a a private home.
2006-11-01 04:00:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Honestly YES I have known a girl who hooks up with another man at her bacholorette party but I think that was just her personality.... she is now divorced, I think it only lasted a few months. But you should trust your fiance.... and everything will be fine, personally I have never heard of a bride to be to hook up with a gross male stripper all the females I know think they are gross yuck... so i am sure your fiance thinks the same and besides she is marrying you, the whole point of having the little party is because she is getting married, I don't htink she would ruin that for a one time things dont worry.
2006-11-01 04:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about TRUST. If she trust you to not do anything wrong at your party then you should do the same. You cant believe everything you see or hear when it comes to these types of parties. If you are confident in what you two have as a whole then there is no need for worry. Its all about having a good time with her friends and enjoying the night before the wedding. The strippers are just another form of entertainment (as it will be at your party). Hey she might be one of the ones to sit back in the corner and just watch everybody elses reactions towards the strippers. You never know her friends might pull a fast one on her and hire some little people strippers for even more laughs. Just relax and let things go as planned. Just remember shes planning to give "YOU" her all for better/worse til death do you part. Think about more important things (future; home, kids, etc) rather focusing all your thoughts on one night. Just think how beautiful she will look when you get that first glance of her walking down towards you and only you. Not having trust is a bad way to start a marriage.
2006-11-01 05:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by latrece81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because men traditionally have strippers at their bachelor parties, women are more and more doing the same thing. I've been to several parties/bachelorette parties where strippers have been hired to entertain. My friends took me to a male dance revue in a club for my party. Most women don't "hook up" with the dancers. The dancers are there to perform a service (dance/entertain) and when finished they leave offering the bride best wishes and a happy marriage.
It's all just in good fun and shouldn't be a problem.
2006-11-01 04:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't look at strippers the way men do. Male strippers at a bachelorette party is more or less funny than it is sexy or a turn on. Women (or at least most women ) don't feel some man she doesn't know thrusting his crotch on her face is a turn on. I wouldn't worry too much about it because in the end she is walking down the aisle to you, she loves you enough to give her heart and life to you. Congratulations and I am sure the two of you will have a happily ever after marriage.
2006-11-01 05:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't personally know any bride to be that hooked up with a stripper at their bachelorette party. Now I've seen some questionable (what their fiancé's may call it) behavior like licking whipped cream off a stripper and vice versa and touching the private parts. But nothing even close to as some of the WILD & CRAZY things I've heard about some bachelor parties. What I have heard of though are bride to be's hooking up with former lovers once before they get married, but if your not worried about anything like that then I don't think you have anything to worry about.
2006-11-01 04:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, most women just flirt and have fun. They don't actually sleep with the male stripper. Also, the stripper probably won't do anything more than strip, it just depends on where the stripper works. I have never heard of a woman sleeping with the stripper at her bachelorettes party, but there might be some women out there that would do it. I guess it just depends on your fiance's personality.
2006-11-01 04:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Manx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think sex with a stripper at a bachelorette party would be extremely rare - most of those guys are gay anyway. But it would depend on how many drinks a person has had - when drunk, people do weird stuff.
Neither my husband or I did the bachelor parties...both of us find them disrespectful and we didn't want to.
It's a little sad that your fiancee wants one. Why does she need that? Why can't she and her friends go have a spa day or go to a comedy show? I would reconsider the thought of marriage - having that kind of party is a very clear sign that someone is not ready for commitment, and isn't mature enough.
2006-11-01 05:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think that your bride to be is going to "hook up" with a stripper at her bachelorett party, then you shouldn't marry her. I doubt that it really happens, but you never know. Does your fiancee really give you any reason to think that she would ever do such a thing?
2006-11-01 13:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, but it's rare. In the last 30 years of being a grown woman, I've seen it happen once. The chick was to young to be getting married. She was 19. She got to drunk and went there. She was also weak minded and her "so called friends" were egging her on. She was drunk but not that drunk where she couldn't have stopped him. Over all I'd have to say, woman don't do that. If we're going get down like that, no body will be around. At a party....don't even worry about it. We'd rather tell the story than to have EVERYBODY there KNOWING...Naw...your girl...she wouldn't play you like that. Not at her bachelorette party. Be easy.
2006-11-01 09:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by I am what I am 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never witnessed or heard of any strippers (male) hooking up with the bride to be. I have friends in that business and they have never done that, (and yes most of them are gay.) If you think your fiance' would do that you may have bigger problems with this marriage then your admitting to. Are you sure you love and trust her enough to spend the rest of your life with her? If you think she would cheat now, how do you think a marriage certificate is going to change that? (just food for thought.)
2006-11-01 04:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by m_haney8145 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋