2006-11-01 03:53:39 · 29 answers · asked by kmc29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it all depends, really. if you definetly do not want a relationship, find out if the other person feels the same way before doing anything. try also to limit yourself to one "friend", unless, again the other person is okay with it. other than that, i say go for it.
2006-11-01 08:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by supergeek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great, as long as there is an open communication between the 2 parties, so that each know exactly where the other stands. It sucks when Friends w/ benefits suddenly becomes 1 falling for the other, and the infatuation/stalking begins.
2006-11-01 11:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by hockeytwn09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One usually falls for the other.. then it becomes really ugly and feelings get hurt. If you have a friend w/ benefits it is more than likely that person has more friends as well.
2006-11-01 12:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a friend with benefits and enjoying it for 30 years!!!
2006-11-01 11:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Searching for answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a rare thing, but it can work, but both have to maintain clear communications. The moment things start to tip out of balance, don't ignore it. In reality, it may be more work than an actually committed relationship. my girl bed buddy and I have been going for over 8 years, and I credit it to both being discree adults, living separate full lives (no common friends) and diverse interests. We are there for each other
2006-11-01 12:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the "friends with benefit" stages several times...nothing good ever comes from it. Someone always ends up hurting someone else. Save it for someone you actually want a relationship with so you don't ruin a good friendship.
2006-11-01 11:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by CuriosityKilledtheCat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits can work if the parties involved are mature about it. Is it what they both want now? Also sometimes called Fu*k Buddies
2006-11-01 11:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great if don't want commitment and if you are not a jealous person. Other than that its not a good idea...its a chance for the guy to get what he wants and needs without having the commitment. But Like I said before, If you don't want a boyfriend then its great!
2006-11-01 11:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by calibeauty3698 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.take note these sorta things always get messed up people get hurt it's never the same ( the friendship that is) trust me i know.you always have to remind yourself and the other party at times that we're just friends,especially at times when you want to cash in on your friendship and they 're not up to it,but want you to always be ready when they want. messed up i say.
2006-11-01 12:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by stranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great idea ,,if you can find the right person for it and you keep it just between you too,,and not have more friends like it
2006-11-01 12:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋