my dad ually abused me for years and my mom dosent believe me, and still lives with him! what do i do??
2006-11-01 03:51:20 · 11 answers · asked by lovehorse4evr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stay away from your dad....... you kinda have to put your self in your moms shoes.... she probably is in deniel..... no woman want to hear that her husband could do such an awful thing..... I would seperate yourself from both your parents for awhile to gain strength from others who love you and support you. I don't konw your living situation but if you still live at home with your parents I would suggest staying with a grandparent or something. Also you may want to seek counseling. This could help you and eventually help your mom to realize..
2006-11-01 04:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have got to ind somebody to talk to , anybody(Priest,counselor,website for people who have gone through what u have) U have in a sense lost both your parents. Maybe in time your mom can come to terms with this and help u if u are able to forgive her, but right now u need to take care of yourself. I wouldn't confront either of them until u have come to terms with it all I wish u the best of luck. Good Luck and i hope u find the peace u deserve.
2006-11-01 04:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by honest/blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to a family member you can trust about this I know you are hurting but just member there are family members who Love you dearly and will listen to you. Cause it's wrong let your dad is abuseing you, but your mom is abuseing you as well by not listening and believing you. God Bless
2006-11-01 05:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by raven s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this exact same thing. I moved with my grandparents because things got so bad. However, if she doesn't believe you, you can go to the police and then she will definitely believe you!
2006-11-01 05:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why she doesn't believe you is cuz that's your dad and she hasn't yet to open her eyes. One day if he does something to you then take pics or hide a camera to prove it.Or maybe you should just avoid him if that doesn't work....
2006-11-01 05:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by BabyMamma19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Are you under 18 and have no choice but to live there? Tell a teacher.
If you are 18 or older, it's time to grow up, get couseling, and don't allow your life to be dibilatated any longer.
Confront your abuser and tell him that you know he abused you, and he should be ashamed of himself, and applogize. Whether he owns up to his mistakes are inconsequential. Forgive him, regardless of no appologies. It will be like taking a leaded vest off of your soul. Jesus said to forgive our tresspassers, as HE (Jesus) forgives us for our own tresspassing. If you want to be forgiven for your sins, you need to forgive others for theirs.
2006-11-01 04:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all know this didn't happen. We all know the truth.
And it is you that have put your self in this hole of lies.
We pray every day for you and that one day you will do the rite thing and tell the truth..... God is watching and is praying for you.
2006-11-02 01:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by sick and tired 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a shame that she doesn't believe you. If I was you, I rather stay away from both of them. It is not worth it.
2006-11-01 05:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk with another person of your family you need somebody to help you talk with the counselor at school
2006-11-01 03:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by haki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention in english class
2006-11-01 03:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋