2006-11-01 03:41:58 · 11 answers · asked by hl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Politely tell them that you have the situation under control. Remind them they raised their children and you would like to raise your children how you see fit.
2006-11-01 03:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by WyoHunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband doesn't put his foot down she will more than likely continue to be that way. You aren't going to be able to make her understand. You will just look like a trouble maker. I have a mother in law who has no reason, but chooses her daughter over her son, (my husband). She always picks favorites. We have 2 little girls that love her to death, but we will go a month without a word. She is oblivious and will call outta the blue and want them to stay with her, and I get so pissed I want to say no, but I can't do that to my kids. I just wish she would see what she does.
2006-11-01 11:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what and how they are interfering. Set up some house rules when they come over. They need to respect them if they were to stay with you.
2006-11-01 11:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by CK1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because They Dont Think That.No One Can Take Care Of There. Son As Good As They Can.
2006-11-01 11:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that someday your grown children will see you that way---enjoy the positive things about having relatives, ignore the rest. Have them over, watch movies together, and don't REACT when they irriate you. You are in charge of your own feelings and reactions, not them.
2006-11-01 11:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR hubby should put her in her place and if he fails...YOU put that biotch in her place and make sure she understands what her postion and MOST IMPORTANTLY YOUR position is. Mother-in-law interference is only able to happen when the couple LETS them. Handle your business.
2006-11-01 11:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them Dr.Phil's website.. hahaha! or buy them family matters book
...or as someone put it in an answer a few days ago (someone asked this same question)
..tell the old bat to sod off....
2006-11-01 11:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mintee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong.. You can't be mean about it... just brush it off, Smile at her thru gritted teeth.. . Ignore her? If it really bad talk to you husband about its his mothers it best if he handed it...
2006-11-01 11:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by string1dm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them mind their own phukin business..
Dang peeps need to stand up for themselves these days..
Pussers!
2006-11-01 11:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her busy! Make her laugh, talk intelligent if nothing owrks, just SMILE.
2006-11-01 11:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by mystiquemoiweb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋