There is this girl, who I WAS pretty sure liked me. Last week she was hinting to me that she wanted to go out on a date with me, but I was slow and didn't ask her. Now, I'm kind of a cocky/funny guy (and this works well) so please don't tell me to just tell her how I feel, I really doubt this will help me much. So, yesterday, I asked her where she was going to take me this weekend, but I don't think she thought I was serious, since she said to the club (but we're in high school). I told her she had to come up with something better than that if she wanted to hang out with me, and she laughed. I won't see her again until Thursday, but I really want to do something with her this weekend. She jokingly told some friends (while I was around) that she would be taking me to prom. I turned away and heard another girl ask her if she was serious, and I looked back just in time to see her shaking her head no, as if she didn't want me to hear her. I still think she likes me, but I'm not as sure now
2006-11-01 03:41:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she probably does like u and honestly she was also probaby lying about not wanting u for da prom as well, so ask her out to da cinema or summat, just ask her out, saying you are serious and if u are a funny guy, if she says no u should be able to laugh it off, but get her away from her friend and just ask her out. u should have no problem
2006-11-01 03:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off not to be cocky myself but you need to get over that it's not a turn on. Second it doesn't sound like she is really into you so i would maybe let alone. Unless she does ask you to prom then you will know that she likes you but as a girl she should be flirty with you and take you up on any kind of dates or just hanging out , and it doesn't sound like she is doing that so back off until you can be sure or you will look silly and you might lose you reputation as being cocky!!!!
2006-11-01 03:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by brutalA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, stop horsing around. Ask the girl to meet you for coffee somewhere after school and get to know her one-on-one. Don't stay with her too long, just an hour or so. If she accepts this time with you, then you can ask her out. Talk about HER, ok? Tell her hello everytime you see her and mention her name: "hey, Jan, how's it going?" But when she is alone is the best time to chit-chat. She's not going to get personal with others around. Try it. Couldn't hurt. Godloveya.
2006-11-01 03:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a wishy washy person that tells you one thing and then tells her friends another. That is also a player. I believe that what you felt about her was either what you wanted it to be or she was just leading you on (probably to impress her friends or either one of her friends wanted her to do that). She seems like that she is a follower, not a leader in her own life and if she is a follower she will listen to others and not go by what she feels or how you feel...my suggestion is to find another person that will listen to you and what you want and not what her friends what her to say. They are out there but it just takes time.
2006-11-01 03:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by dog2b2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cocky/funny is a great way to keep a chick attracted, so points to you for that. YOU decide where youre going this weekend and tell her she can tag along. always have a weekend event lined up. dont seriously leave it up to the girl to decide where you want to go, esoecially if its the first date, you have to be the guy that calls the shots. you sound like you got some game, now just step it up a notch
2006-11-01 03:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by unkerpaulie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be shes just playing with you. She obviously knows you like her.Maybe she is afraid to get to know you. But is so not cool for her to act that way around her friends. You could talk to one of her friends and if that is not an option then you should make her respect. Simply back off. If she has any feelings for you she will come around. If not move on. Good luck.
2006-11-01 03:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you don't sound like your interested in becoming a little more serious. I don't think she is interested.
We have all known the cocky/funny guys in school. Rarely do we ever take them serious.
2006-11-01 03:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel this is kinda da same wit me ders this guy and he also always jockes around and says stuff 2 me like that bt i dont kno if i should take it seriously cause i might make a fool of myself so i think u should talk to her alone and seriously ask her if she wants to go out wit u
2006-11-01 03:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you but is just shy and isn't sure how her Friends Will react to her liking you. I would ask her again about hanging out is there a hang out spot in your area where people your age go? Invite her there it's a start....
~Best wishes~
2006-11-01 03:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh i had a friend just like you!! ask her again in your funny way and when she says something come back whith how about i take you to the movies. then take it from their do you already have her # if not get it then. or if you do call her that night and conferm. go she what she wants to see `~k~ good luck!
2006-11-01 03:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋