if there were no consequences or better yet, you had your partners blessing
is monogamy something we do for workability or something we actually desire to have coz sex with more then ne person is so unattractive and awful, ya right,.... or something designed to hold and protect that which you are afraid to lose ......
2006-11-01 03:41:43 · 14 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
great answer Pixie
2006-11-01 04:03:20 · update #1
I wouldn't want to cheat on my partner, I think it is slutty. If I wanted to be with someone else for whatever reason I would tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him anymore and why. (I have done it before.) I am honest and up front. I am never ashamed of anything I do or think, but sleeping with more than one person is gross in my mind. I am a one man girl even if we are just f uck buddies one at a time.
2006-11-01 04:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by brystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The temptation to slide into something new is always exciting and most men will cheat or think about cheating if they knew they could get away with it but there are a few who struggle with it. I think about it all the time but then I look at what I already have and ask if I'm willing to lose that. The answer has come up, "NO"....so far.
2006-11-01 03:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? i mean thats really the same for men and women yet different, because guys we know we want to take anything to bed that has nice legs, or smile, t its or as s but if a girl falls for a cute guy while she is in a relationship then its usually more emotional, although there are those girls out there like guys that will just go out after them for lust, but thats cause they aint getting it at home... i think monogamy is simply a way to jusify the means to marriage or else what is it, just live in gf/bf so think what you want but its not the norm to be monogamous now, but it also is if you are married, so it all depends on the depth of your relationship
2006-11-01 03:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People never get away with it. Sooner or later your conscience surfaces and your behavior changes. Your partner will detect the change in your personality and sooner or later will find out that you cheated.
Cheating, to me, is unforgiveable. If I knew my spouse cheated, that would end my marriage. Having sex with someone, even with your partner's blessing, is still cheating and will destroy your marriage.
My advice: don't play with fire because you will get burned. Ask yourself if it's worth it.
2006-11-01 03:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I wouldn't. I've seen the results of things like that and even if there are no consequences, it's an extremely scummy thing to do. I wouldn't be able to face my partner after something like that.
2006-11-01 03:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by cgc17788 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have cheated in a past relationship because i wasnt happy in the one i was in but now i wouldnt because i love my man and i would hate for it to be done to me so thats how i loook at it and if i can be faithful so can men even though alot of people say men cant be faithful thats bull$***
2006-11-01 03:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by WeFlyHigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Who would know?....ME. We've been together almost 34 years, and that's never happened. Believe it or not, there are still people like us out there. Just not many younger people.
2006-11-01 03:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by flip4449 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma!!! I do believe in. What goes around comes around. If you have to cheat..then break up with that person before you do it.
2006-11-01 03:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person did get away with it, or if they had their partner's blessing, does it make it okay to do it?
2006-11-01 03:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Quest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. If I was single I wouldn't sleep around. It's to dangerous.
2006-11-01 03:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋