How do you know if a guy genuinely likes you ? Not just for sex ?
2006-11-01 03:40:57 · 23 answers · asked by Elle x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont want to be just another notch on his bed post
2006-11-01 03:44:40 · update #1
to mannit m not all of us are experienced in this department , and i have too much respect for myself to make a mistake like that . I just wanted to get peoples opinions. By the way I am 20.
2006-11-01 03:50:05 · update #2
make him wait
the knack is 2 give a lil at a time.
if he really, really loves u he'll wait until ur ready.
2006-11-01 03:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a difficult question you ask. Let see, if he shows you to his mother is a good sign. If the mother likes you a better sign. If he brings you too his friends? – Yes that might be a good sign too.
Now I know it is simple. Look at his pupills. They are a part of his brain and they can’t fool you and he can’t control them. You see, if somebody looks at something one like as a loved one or some good food, the pupills become a little bit larger than they normally are in the same light. Don't listen just to talks. There are other signs, but it takes too much space to tell.
If he hides you might be a bad sign and he might be afraid of somebody’s mind about it.
Turn the question around: How would you do if you were not too satisfied? How should you behave et cetera? You might have the correct answer your self. Good luck and kind regards from Robert Siikiniemi
2006-11-01 04:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Realname: Robert Siikiniemi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Err...
You could pretend that you don't believe in sex before marriage and then see what happens?!
Sex is just one part of a relationship, and so if the other parts are working ok then you have a good relationship!
So just have a think: do you communicate well with eachother? Do you both give eachother support? Are you fair with money? Do you each get to do your own thing with friends, as well as stuff together?
If this is someone you don't know very well yet, well you don't have to jump into bed with them straight away, just take your time!
Enjoy!
2006-11-01 03:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it but you can't always tell!
Best thing you can do is wait a while and if he sticks around long enough you can be pretty sure he's genuine!
Has he been asking for it? Making moves on you? Being a bit suggestive or pushy?
If so then be wary.
2006-11-01 03:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by carly s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know from the way he is treating you out of bed as well as in it. If he makes you feel special when you are not having sex, it is an indicator he truly likes you
2006-11-01 03:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy just don't give him the sex. What's wrong with waiting? You'll know before you do it if you wait long enough, a good amount of time to wait is at least two months of going out.
2006-11-01 03:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say if he is a player if he grabs you inappropriately soon after seeing you, has nothing to talk to you about except sensual things. If he likes you he will adore the way you look and think and want to share ideas and just being with you. does he make you feel wonderful about yourself. Is it talking about other women. is he focused on you? Players are tricky because they know what a woman wants.
2006-11-01 03:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by ocean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he rings you first and always rings when he says he will, if he is making lots of effort, if he is the one that wants to take you out, if he is treating you nicely then and only then would i think he was genuine.
Remember if someone likes you enough they will do anything to be with you and they will always find time to call!!
2006-11-01 03:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys who want sex looks at lower parts of the body (they dont care about girl feelings) & what they prefer is her body.
but if someone really likes u that means he behaves politely with you, never make any bad moves with u (like trying to kiss u from the first few dates) and most times he is shy when he is with u.......
2006-11-01 03:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by FUJA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, it would be that the guy wouldn't be only interested in sex. He wouldn't bring it up or pressure you into it. Sex is only meant for after marraige, so you'll will found out in time what his agenda is.
2006-11-01 03:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm of the same opinion as you,... but obviously,.... women where i'm concerned...!
good for you, there far to many ***** about that just want you!?! then **** off.... i prefer wait till i get to know them trust them and love them before jumping in the sack, if he really likes you then he should respect your decision, if he stays around and spends time with you ... talking doing stuff with you then you can be sure that he likes you for who you are, and not just your looks.....
good luck matey
2006-11-01 04:12:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋