One girl I dated unzipped my pants as we were leaving her driveway and did it. When I asked her what this was all about she said that she does that to make dates more fun. She said now I wouldn't be horny and wondering all evening if I was going to get anything from her. Now we can bowl with our friends and have a good time with no sexual tension. Dated her a few times but we never relly clicked. Am I right she was highly unusual?
2006-11-01 03:39:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She seems a bit unusual if she did it before you left her driveway... But I can get where she's coming from... But you don't need to complain about it... It just doesn't seem right...
2006-11-01 03:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she's unusual--she's a woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. She also knows that the sooner you have sex, the sooner you really get to know your partner.
Sensuality too early can cause too many good emotions that grow without root and lead to heartbreak later, but she's right about one thing--if she hadn't done it you would have been trying to get into her pants all night. Once she lets you in, the two of you can get real--the other person isn't a goal--they are part of a new relationship, one that could go somewhere, but might not. So many people wait/waste 3 weeks or 3 dates to have sex, and THEN start getting to know each other and find out that they don't really click!
If she isn't a slut (that is, she is actually looking for someone to have a real relationship with), she's smart and willing to take chances. That's a combination I look for, but she does need to be more than that too--and you have to be right for her. She probably pre-screened you--she thought the two of you had a chance before she took the chance. If it doesn't work out, oh well, at least you didn't waste a lot of time finding out, and sex is fun!
2006-11-01 11:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha, sounds interesting, I am gunna have to try that one some time- what an interesting philosophy... She sounds unusual, but you might wanna watch it. If thats a trick of hers, she's probably been with a good amount of guys- watch where that mouth goes. ha ha!
2006-11-01 11:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good way to start a date to me.
2006-11-01 11:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking the milk before buying the car...
Odd- to be sure.
isn't the romance part of the date??
2006-11-01 11:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by rottymom02 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She took a chance u would not go on the date at all....
2006-11-01 11:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was guy i would only think of her as a s l u t & wonder how many other guys experienced a first date with her like that.
2006-11-01 11:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever floats your boat!
2006-11-01 11:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's great! good for you/ nothing wrong with her. that's the type of girl all men are looking for.
2006-11-01 11:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be a "keeper". Great attitude!
2006-11-01 11:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋