A girl-friend of mine has a HUGE crush on one of her guy-friends who recently seperated from his wife. They made-out once, and he started feeling guilty and called it off.
When they talked about it later, he said "God knows my heart. And he knows your heart. But that still doesn't make it right."
She came to me (of all people!) for advice. She said "Do you think this means he could feel something and is scared?" I had no idea what to tell her. Anyone have any ideas?
2006-11-01 03:36:30 · 12 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off, if she pursues that guy right now, she will be the rebound girl - it will not last.
that being said - who knows why he didn't pursue it - if he wanted to get closer to her he could do that with out all that god knows my heart mumbo-jumbo... I'd tell her to lay off him and see what happens
2006-11-01 03:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by grisgris100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important point is that he NEVER said he loved her. He NEVER said he's willing to make a commitment to her. If he did, then she would have a basis to even THINK that he really has some kind of feelings for her.
In that statement, he admitted to nothing. She's reading more into that statement than she should. For all we know, he may have used her for that short period of time, and now he's sorry about it.
If he saying that whatever had happened is wrong, there's a sign pointing out a problem. She should stay away for a little while, while he sorts his life out. AGAIN, she's jumping to conclusions and she might end up hurting her own feelings.
2006-11-01 11:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Divo Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should let him alone. He is just separated and might even work things out with his wife.
2006-11-01 11:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't push it and let fate take it's course if it was meant for them to be together they will be simple as that
2006-11-01 11:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Steven L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with that statement, it sounds like he does like her, and he is afraid. give him time dont push yet. let him get over his wife and their baggage. he sounds like he needs time to heal from that one first.
2006-11-01 11:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by kmcglidden 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't fancy her and is letting her down gently
Why do women never see this?
2006-11-01 11:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he recently seperated from his wife, wait to see if they get back together, or get divorced... if they get divorced, go ask him out... if they get back together, don't mention it again to him...
2006-11-01 11:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a round about way, he's telling her he dosn't want to be with her.
2006-11-01 11:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by BIG DADDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just nod your head and go "uhha I see umm ok then yea" and you should be ok
2006-11-01 11:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by TrOpPo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT HE DOSNT WANT A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW???
2006-11-01 11:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by ford_mud_runner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋