Okay ladies, a male what to take you out, BUT you got to pay for your OWN food! Plus you got to get to the place on your own! What should i do if he call and want to go out again?
2006-11-01 03:36:02 · 15 answers · asked by Ludacris Lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should you go out with him again depends on what you want out of him...If you want a man to pay for you to go out and have a good time, then no. You most certainly should not accept. If you're looking for a good man then you may want to go out with him again and prove to him that you are completely independent and want to go with him to be with him then you might get somewhere. If you can't afford to take him up on his date then should you expect a man to pay double that to spend a night with you? If you can't then tell him you can't and let his answer tell you what you want to know about him.
Chances are, he's tired of women who expect him to buy their affection.
2006-11-01 04:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by grubblettelphinloch 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to go out with him or not? Do as you feel like, as long he doesn't want you to pay his food...
Take it from his point of view: why should he pay for two? Do you? Why not split the bill in two? What's the problem?
If you get upset by this, don't go out with him anymore, find yourself a rich guy...
2006-11-01 03:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Eyeline 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless he has a damn valid reason for it if not DON'T go. If he is that into u he will not suggest such a turn off arrangement. Gal, u know something is wrong here, otherwise u won't even be seeking 2nd opinion
2006-11-01 03:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that it is better this way, it shows that you are independent, and can hold your own. If he is like this all the time, then you do not need to be with a cheap skate.
2006-11-01 03:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Breann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think girls rely too much on their men to pay for everything. Go out and have fun with him. He might be one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet.
2006-11-01 03:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Little miss naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he asking you out and expecting you to pay and provide your own transportation? He sounds like a loser. Pass.
2006-11-01 03:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by trueblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him you should go. Otherwise, you're dating him b/c you're hungry or need a ride somewhere. I don't think guys should pay all the time.
2006-11-01 03:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jan S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the only way I date. But if you are uncomfortable with this, then talk to him about it. Maybe he's just trying to be modern. Or maybe he's a jacka$$.
2006-11-01 03:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by Earth Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw it, if this is how he starts off, it's only going to get worse. I promise!
2006-11-01 03:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him go out with your mom,
You don't need too seeing such a guy.
2006-11-01 03:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by OMID T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋