Okay for the guys....
I'm seeing this guy it's been about a month and half...not too long :)
But, I always call him, or even text message him...So I guess you can say I'm always given in to him. Do you think I should stop calling him and let him chase me for a change. What do you guys think...is it a turn on when a girl blows off a guy.
2006-11-01 03:29:54 · 17 answers · asked by Little Miss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These answers are great thank you so much :)
2006-11-01 03:42:14 · update #1
If you're far enough into dating that he's comfortable with the fact that you do like him, then why not? Blow him off. Play hard to get.
If on the other hand, everything is still unsure, then he might just think you don't like him; He'll move on. So be careful and accept his advances on occasion. Confuse him. One day blow him off, the next day, get your flirt on.
2006-11-01 03:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Yosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends. If your calling/messaging leads to actual conversation, then don't stop. If it just seems like something you do, then stop. It's cool if he always wants to talk and bad if he doesn't always want to talk. There's nothing more difficult then talking when you have nothing to talk about. Puts strain on the relationship.
2006-11-01 11:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not forget about who chases who and go for him if you like so much. You may delay and before you know it another will take him from you.
2006-11-01 11:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Call him and say "Phone Tag, You're it" and hang up and see if he calls then he' atleast a little interested.
2006-11-01 11:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by brayglenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sort depends on the guy becuse some guys might say screw it and not chase after you and some guys might. i would probbaly say let him chase you becuse then youll know if he really does like you or if hes just goin out with you becuse he feel like it.
2006-11-01 11:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by thugin and bugin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit desperate and maybe you are realizing it. Good for you! Guys get tired of smothering women real fast.
2006-11-01 11:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya let him call you. u shouldn't be doing all of it. he might start to think your bugging him. if he doesnt call u in a few days, then call him again. but, ask him why he doesnt call, and tell him you'd like him too sometimes.
2006-11-01 11:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by BigJCliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been one for playing games and I never liked girls who did that either. I believe in honesty and if you want to be with him....do it ...if not then tell him. If you want to call or text do it and if he doesn't appreciate it then don't bother with him.
2006-11-01 11:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if i were in your guy's shoes... i'd be lovin life... i almost alwas call my girl... she doesn't call me much at all...
but, if she called me alot, then all of a sudden, blew me off, i'd not be happy, i'd call her and tell her that it was mean of her, what she did...
if you want something from your guy, ask him, don't try to trick him, or play those games...
2006-11-01 11:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant say its a turn on === but he should call you as much or more than you call him --- so see what happens when you dont call him :)
2006-11-01 11:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋