I am only 24 years old, yet feel I cant build bonds with people, have a much lower sex drive than I used too, feel isolated and detatched from the rest of the world.
I dont know why i'm feeeling like this and although i'm a likeable, and quick witted character I always end up doing things alone.
I have some days where I feel completely useless and almost that i'm a spectator to my own mundane life.
Can anybody explain what's happening to me? I've considered suicide on a few occasions and am at my wits end. HELP
2006-11-01 03:03:17 · 12 answers · asked by bearerofknowledge 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
thats depression im afraid.. go see your doc or get some friends round and do something you enjoy... got xbox live.. i will play you on there if you want. drop an email and well have a laugh,... dont worry its not the menopause.. just hitting a bridge in life.. i had mine a few months back but now im great.. hope you feel better matey.. tc.
2006-11-01 03:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by nommie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to read some books on self-esteem. Put your head up and walk with confidence. Forget the sex drive. If you don't deal with so many people, you won't need to worry about it. When the right one comes along, you will automaticallly get it (sex drive). As far as male menopause, I consider it to be a real thing, happening between ages of 50-70 and it (to me) is when they start "chasing women" and one is never enough for them. So forget that one. Make one special friend. Concentrate on just making one. Your list will surprise you and grow. Get out in public, but let that friend (or someone else) know that you don't want to do things alone. Good luck.
P.S. Don't waste your life (such a young age) with worries like this. It took me 50 years to realize that I would do whatever I wanted and not worry what other people think. Find that close friend, TODAY. Do what you want with him, or her.
2006-11-01 03:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by misty_blue2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are depressed, which suggests that you should be seen by a competent physician who can refer you to the right professional.
Depression is nothing to be ashamed of. It may have different triggers but the root cause appears to be improper metabolism of serotonin in one's brain. Physiological and other stresses can affect that metabolism and various drugs help to combat it.
If you are feeling suicidal it is really important to seek help asap. You will be able to get back to your more usual self once you have begun treatment.
And you are to be commended for seeking help, as a first step, from this forum. Good luck.
2006-11-01 03:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
previous due 40's is very early for a guy to circulate by way of male menopause till his testosterone is quite low. he will journey comparable symptoms as a female dealing with menopause, warm flashes, low libido, fewer erections (adult men in basic terms needless to say) loss of bone and muscular tissues, etc. i might propose him to get a blood attempt for his testosterone.
2016-10-21 02:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately sound like depression, like everyone says go to you're doctor tell him how you feel and he will give you some antidepresants but don't just rely on them you should confide in a friend and let them know how you feel, sharing you're feelings helps you get through this dark time in you're life
2006-11-01 03:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by braveheart321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are depressed. Go talk to a Doctor, they can tell you and talk about treatments available to you. You will be fine and life will get better for you.
2006-11-01 03:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your bored, and so getting depressed.
Maybe u should get out, get a hobby , meet more people.
join a club, maybe a volunteer, police , first aid, something to get some excitment into your life..
If you have a busy fun life, you will not have time to be sad and lonely , and who knows, you might meet someone special too..
2006-11-01 03:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
i agree with ginger depression is a possibility
was there a romantic break up or loss of job?
consider a reiki healing
2006-11-01 03:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through depression. Go to your Doctor so he or she can recommend good professional couseling and medication. You will be fine again.
2006-11-01 03:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by ginger13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree with everybody else, it sounds like depression. Please go and get help from your doctor. Its nothing to be ashamed of, and you can get over it with help.
2006-11-01 03:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋