how can this happen cancer?

Question

help i have cervical cancer i had an operation and i lost the baby i had i was only 8 weeks and they thought all gone but cancer has spread now i need radiation and chem i didnt think this could happen why me

Answer 1

I'm really sorry about the loss of your child. I know how difficult this is. I had a mis-carriage years ago. For the longest time, I blamed myself. Thought I did something wrong, or something to cause it. I've learned otherwise, as years have past. I'm also really sorry about your cancer diagnosis. The "why me" questions, are just the start. I was diagnosed in March 2006 with Malignant Melanoma Stage III. I've had two surgeries, and today was my third day of chemo. Side effects...awlful. You've got to get yourself better. Stay strong. There is a reason for everything. You may not believe this now...but, somewhere down the line, it will come to you. You whole world right now, has been turned upside down. You will be on a roller-coaster of emotions for quit some time. If you feel like crying...cry. If you feel like yelling...yell. If you feel like talking...talk. Find those who will allow you to express yourself. You are going to need alot of support right now. I hope that you can find that. If you would like to talk...feel free. Cancer is rough. It will change your thoughts and views on live. I know that I have made changes...I want to live. I want to spent what time I do have, making memories with the ones I love...and as for the ones who don't want to encourage me, on this journey, of mine, called life...they know where they can go...and unfortunately...my husband was one...it's been extremely rough, but, I am at peace...with myself. I've got to keep living! You do the same! Survive! I will pray for you.

Answer 2

Cancer can, and does happen to anyone. I am 34, in pretty good health, and felt pretty good. But i was diagnosed in December 2005 with renal cell carcinoma(kidney cancer). Its hell to deal with and there are lots of questions as to why. Seek help from someone, whether its family, clergy, or a professional. Dont let it take you down. Fight and and you will win! Good Luck, and god bless!

Answer 3

You know the way illnesses occur? They occur whilst individuals pressure out or fear an excessive amount of approximately each and every little factor. Human beings are little, they're tiny, however they suppose they're the sector. They are tinier than the dimensions of a speck of dirt in the world, however they suppose they're extra foremost than some thing else round them. What's humorous is the one stressors they've are themselves. How many animals who simply cross approximately their day and realize each and every different's territories die of melanoma daily? How many die from autos hitting them? How many animals get up within the morning and purposefully run their autos into individuals, since they're indignant on the global? How many die from their possess act of lack of know-how, suicide, since they'd a tiny person, who's tinier than the dimensions of a speck of dirt from area harm their emotions, that's the dimensions of a pea of their mind? That's how illnesses occur. Human beings don't comprehend how tiny and no longer in manipulate of nature and its occurences individuals are. They positioned penalties on each and every different for the smallest matters that might ever occur! They have funerals, and you're asking how breast melanoma and melanoma occurs? Animals shouldn't have funerals. They can are living on this planet simply nice. They can consume, get alongside, sleep, and waste not anything. Take a person, and they're creating a meesley string that anybody picked up off of the sidewalk and making it right into a residence. I imply, that is humans for you. They take matters manner some distance over the severe. People make matters occur! That's how melanoma occurs, similar to the whole lot else tied to humans and their pea-sized egos. The trick is not to fall for nature's trick. Act just like the animal, and you're going to live on. Act like a tyrant, and nature will educate you that your pea-sized mind is only a nuisance that it has given to you to peer if you can waste a while making use of it, or no longer. Imagine a speck of dirt taking up the earth! You suppose nature will allow that occur? ;) That's how unknowledgeable humans truthfully are.

Answer 4

I'm so sorry to hear that. You should talk to a professional counselor about dealing with this, maybe your doctor could recommend someone. There are also probably support groups in your area you could join.
Good luck to you.