ok heres the deal when i was like 8 r 10 my moms boyfriend raped me well i think he did see we were playing around and he was tickling me and i hate to be tickled well he started feeling on me and rubbing me well i new somthing wasnt right so i started screaming and y mom cam in and found us well he said he was jus playing and i was bein a baby but neway we never saw him again......well when me and my bf started dating he was a very touchy feely kind of person and still is which i love but at first it bothered me and he didnt understand so the first nite we stayed together i told him what happened he actually started crying an got quiet...that was 6 months ago i want to know if this bothers him in any way i know it does somtimes cuz when were sleeping i wake up having nightmares about it and he holds me til iu go back to sleep the thing im worried about is that he thinks im afraid of him doin that to me but i know he never would..i mean it hasnt affected our sex life does it hurt him
2006-11-01 02:20:58 · 10 answers · asked by UR COUNTRY BEAUTY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you have a guy who loves you dearly and is naturally scared of hurting you. I honestly don't think he would feel like you are afraid of him - if you have talked about what happened, and he is being there for you the way you say he is, then he is simply trying to be there for you in the best way he can, and worries when he's not sure how he can help more.
You've picked well - don't let this one go :)
2006-11-01 02:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting
2016-05-23 02:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he is very caring --- while you were not technically raped you were assaulted but it did not leave a major trauma
he is notworried about anything --- you are already having sex so why do you think he would think you are afraid of him??
i think its a concern to you but it nothing for you to worry about
it does not hurt him --- it allows him to show how much he cares
2006-11-01 02:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's always going to be a little bit afraid of hurting you that way, he's there to love and support you though. just tell him that you trust him not to hurt you that way, and then hug him tightly.. it will work out for you two.
2006-11-01 02:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy must really love you and care about your feelings. Your lucky he cares that much about you. Males (at least most) are protectors...and he wants to protect you because he cares about you.
2006-11-01 02:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by joey_z40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a good guy. Talk things out with him and tell him how you feel.
2006-11-01 02:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a good and caring boyfriend who hurts when you hurt. That is great--hang onto him!!
2006-11-01 02:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is maybe just nervous he is going to do the wrong thing and upset you. Be glad you gotta nice man...
2006-11-01 02:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if it bothers him and seek conseling if it is a serious issus bcuz ur moms bf robbed u of ur innocence and yall can git through it!
2006-11-01 02:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably a little but i'm sure he must just care about you a lot if it bothers him
2006-11-01 02:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by nodumby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋