My boyfriend enjoys performing oral sex on me. I mean the WHOLE THING, if you get my drift. I like it alot, and he's good about taking his time and pleasing me, but should I do the same to him? I know he's had alot more sexual partners than I have and it kinda grosses me out. Only serious answers please.
2006-11-01 02:06:38 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about all that. It grosses me out, too! :)
A lot of guys think that if they give you oral, that they should recieve it, too. But, that's not always the case. As a matter of fact, I know a few guys who LOVE giving oral, but they aren't real big about receiving it.
You shouldn't feel obligated to perform every time he goes down on you. As a matter of fact, you shouldn't feel obligated at all. It's your choice, really. But, it doesn't hurt to swallow your feelings about oral (no pun intended =D), and give him a surprise now and again.
If it becomes a problem between you and your sweetie, you might want to have a little chat with him and let him know how you feel. If this does happen, don't make him feel like it's HIM that grosses you out, just the action in itself.
2006-11-01 02:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by shush_n_kiss_me 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I frequently perform oral sex on my wife, the whole thing as you put it. I do it, because I like it and I know she loves it and it brings her pleasure. I do not do it in hopes that she will return the favor, I just do it for her. She will frequently do the same for me, but I never ask her for it. We have an understanding in our love life and that is we do not pressure the other into anything they are not in the mood for or do not enjoy. So if my wife found it gross, I would not ask her to do that for me. It sounds like you need to talk with him and let him know it is that you are not being greedy, you just have a hard time not getting grossed out by it. See if there is another way that you can give back that you enjoy and he will enjoy... Talk with him, let him know how much you like what he does for you and that you do not want to appear one way or greedy, but return oral is very hard for you...
2006-11-01 10:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he gives you the indication, such as hints like putting his throbbing member close to your face, or positioning his body so that his tool has easy oral access, than yes. Keep in mind some men like doing that because it pleases 99 percent of the time. He may just enjoy seeing you get off for your sake.
2006-11-01 10:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point if you don't return the favor he is going to be less likely to provide you the satisfaction.
2006-11-01 10:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Rick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It grosses you out? Hahaha... thats new!
Give him a b j... thats what he wants, believe me... if it grosses you out, why are you with him? Tell him to get tested if that's what you're worried about...
Anyway, guys love when you go down onthem and you go at it like its the most delicious thing in the world... tongue, a little teeth, and stroking it goes a long way...
Good luck!
2006-11-01 10:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by kisme86 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep return the favor.
2006-11-01 10:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by Pencil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will hint about receiving, if it's something he desires.
lots of guys enjoy giving oral without ever thinking it should be returned.
2006-11-01 10:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always get him tested first before thinking of doing oral sex to him, once you get your results you know where you can go from there, if he rejects it, you know you got a problem, you can get yourself tested also. that is my serious answer to you right now, good luck.
2006-11-01 10:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Princess P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got what you meant by the whole thing, You should because it doesn't gross him out. And apparently he's into it.
2006-11-01 10:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by brianlefttoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Return the favor honey, you will learn to like it.
2006-11-01 10:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋