I hook my friends up with each other 3 month ago. The relationship been going very well. my girl friend is happy i'm happy 4 her. They just make a beautiful couple... Anyway I went out for drinks with a co-worker last night and I saw my guy friend. Her boyfriend hug up with this guy I knew for a longtime. Now the guy he was hugging for some reason I felt he was gay but I let it slide. now when I seen them and they seen me. my home girl boy friend smile and place his finger over his lips like don't tell. What should i do.
2006-11-01 02:01:02 · 11 answers · asked by Stop u Killin Me! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her, thats not healthy and if she gets AIDS or something because you didn't tell her its not love for her she will be hurt in a long run let her know now before it gets deep
2006-11-01 02:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your friend (girl) are real close you should tell her and don't let her get her heart broken of some boy that is gay. It would be better for you to tell her because if she catches him in the act with the other boy and then she comes back and tells you what just happened and you tell her that you already knew you might loose a good friend. No matter how the boy feels about the situation you should still tell her and don't try to hide because you will re greet it for the rest of your life.
2006-11-01 10:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Babtkat357 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you are in the dark position your friend are right now, and you get to know later that the person your friend hook-up with you is a gay and he not ready to leave that habit.
let your conscience speak to you, that is when you will know if you should keep quite or speak out to your friend.
moreover you are the one that link them together, so you are the one who will tell her this is the situation, assuming you dont have hand in the relationship now i would have said you should hol your peace.
but since you have hand in it please i am beging you, let her know of the situation, firthly let the guy know that you will tell her and from there get a meeting to let both party know of the situation.
i wish you best of luck
2006-11-01 10:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by phemmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy, if he is bi/gay whatever you want to call it give him the option of breaking up or telling your friend himself to let her make the decision. You are already involved since you got them together to begin with therefore have some responsibility to you friend. If your suspicions are correct and he elects to do nothing them tell her yourself. be sure you have time to discuss it with her when you do.
2006-11-01 10:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what the deal is with your guy friend. Is he bi or what? Tell him that he should say something to his girlfriend or you will. She is your friend too, and she shouldn't be exposed to any danger that may arise from her boyfriend being with another man or anyone else for that matter.
2006-11-01 10:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by firelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my friend what I saw. She should know what´s going on, even if it hurts her. It´s always better to know the truth.
2006-11-01 10:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Latica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth will make you free,and her to if shes got any sense.
2006-11-01 10:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her girl..You friend has a rite to know if her man is gay or bi or what ever...WOULDNT YOU LIKE TO KNOW?
2006-11-01 10:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL!!! Who is the better friend. Secrets are never good!!
2006-11-01 10:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your own business
2006-11-01 10:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋