Question to "(Kid-Less)" Men/Women dating People with Kids?

Question

Whenever I date women who have kid/kids, I find it easier to date them because they are much more matured , calmed Headed than those without kids (I don't have kids), and they are more willing to go the
Extra length to keep the ralationship in place
But at the back of my mind ,I always have a perception that this ladies
might not have dated me if they had no children,
that is their value like a used car (no offense meant)
has depreciated, and that part of the reason why they agreed to date with me is that not too many men out there would want the responsibility of going out with someone who has baggages
question is ,Do "kid-less" folks Dating people with kids feel the same?

Answer 1

I don't have a problem dating people with children. Mostly because I like kids...

Answer 2

Every situation is different. Although woman with children tend to know what they want and don't want in a new relationship. They don't ususally just date for the sake of dating. They are looking for a mate that's better than the last one. Some are desperate and will date anyone. You might want to date a woman you feel comfortable with as a woman, regardless if she has children or not. Then deal with the issue of her kids. It's a major responsibility taking on someones else's children. But can be very rewarding. Or it can be a nightmare. Are you the type of person someone would want as a father to their children?

Answer 3

dude you just said exactally what i was wondering i am dating a woman with 2 kids right now and i wonder that almost every single day i like the kids but i cant help but wonder if there is ever an alterior motive behind her dating me. Let me know what you find out i really would like to know.

Answer 4

some people would agree with you whole heartedly. but, if you feel as though women who have kids are 'used cars', then you should precieve women who arent virgins the same way. women with children are just that. i would think you'd be more worried about having to raise a child in this horrible world. and teach them about the rights and wrongs in society.

Answer 5

I am currently in that situation, my boyfriend has 2 lil' girls, but he doesn't have custody of them. So he hardly doesn't see them;( He doesn't seem too sad about it, though. I don't have any kids, but it doesn't bother me that he does. I actually think he won the lottery with me, because I am pretty, mature and understanding. I am 24 yrs. old and attend college, so I'm all about independent. I think he really likes that about ME:)