I can't seem to find a nice guy. They always says that the past doesn't matter but when I try to share my life with them they leave. Guys, would it make you have second thoughts about me if I you knew I lost my virginity at 11, got pregnant and had an abortion at 12 and at 14, and had 5 misscarriages.
2006-11-01 01:42:39 · 13 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mmmm really. well you need to cheer up...life is still wonderfull...
2006-11-01 01:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whoa! heavy confessions...you are asking why love hurts so much. well, when you fall in love with a person, you are also giving him the "right" to hurt you. you cannot love and not get hurt. It always goes together. I can say bad things about you right now, call you names, etc. but i am sure you wont get hurt because you do not love me. But if the person you love says bad things about you, call you names, etc., i am sure that you will get hurt. as i said in your other question, stop looking for the right guy. He will find you, and when he does, i am sure that he will accept you for what you have been and what you are right now. When this happens, i think you should also try to make something out of your life. Start by learning to love yourself and giving yourself a bit of respect. If you cannot learn to love yourself then how could you give love to other persons? Whatever happened in your past, do not allow these to run your life. instead make these experiences a lesson and inspiration for you to make a better person of yourself. I do not believe that you are a bad person, cuz there is always a bit of a good person in everyone. Its time to bring this good person out and start a life that is worth living. Then, wait patiently for the right guy...he will come...who knows by this time, he is trying to look for you.
2006-11-01 10:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you've had a life girl. but those people don't love you, they just want something and forget about you when they have what they wanted. And it's very difficult to find someone that will accept you for who you are in the inside.
2006-11-01 09:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by mexicanena5589 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little girl, you need a hobby! You don't need to share your life story with anyone. I believe you do it for shock value and you are probably making it worse than it is. Just remember, If it hurts, it isn't love.
2006-11-01 09:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you slow down, and think about what it is you really want in life. As for me, what happened to you in the past should remain in the past. From this moment forward you should look to your future.
2006-11-01 09:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well love hurts when you take a chance to trust and believe. but maybe you telling the wrong people of your past, maybe you are looking at the wrong type of guy.
You 1st must learn to love yourself and accept your past as your past, it is part of you but not all of you.
2006-11-01 09:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by tina j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, stop giving your heart away so easy for one thing. i used to feel the same way about love but you got to stay on your feet and NEVER give your love away so easy. when you meet a guy make sure you feel content when you are with him. its hard to find a good man sometimes though, i know.just stay strong.
2006-11-01 09:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think I would keep that information to myself. That will turn anybody off unless it was not consentional sex. Which by your screen name I am assuming it was. You have done alot of crap to your body at such a young age. I am sorry for you
2006-11-01 09:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by MC Workin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldn't share so much detail in just a short period of time...try getting to know the guy first....
2006-11-01 09:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit it, you don't want a nice guy. You want looks and cash and that is it.
2006-11-01 09:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no but i would sat to you to see a doctor and git yourself checked out. for health reasons.
2006-11-01 09:48:16 · answer #11 · answered by joey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋