if a guy who has been chasing you for ages and ages, only contacts you on the weekends to meet up, is he really interested in you?we live in different citys, about a 30min train ride.
2006-11-01 01:40:43 · 22 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes ask him out
2006-11-01 01:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume this pattern began happening after your first intimate incounter. If this is the case then you may just be a booty call, I'm sorry to break it like this to you but many guys out there tend to keep a steady GF, but have a Piece on the side. If you live that far away it is very easy for him to get away with this as you most likely won't be surprising him in public while he's hand in hand with his regular girl. Best way to find out one way or another is to go to where he lives unannounced, and talk to his neigbors and see if they can tell you if there is another girl he has coming over alot. Then confront him, If he claims she is just a friend, or a cousin or something and is unwilling to introduce you to them then you have your answer.
2006-11-01 09:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by lovpayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he only contacts you at weekends seems a bit funny to me. In the 21st century I find it hard to believe that he can't get in touch during the week. I think he might be using you for what he wants but does not have any serious intentions.
2006-11-01 09:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has been chasing you for ages then he must like you. if you stay 30 min away by train then it makes it very difficult to see each other during the week - but why can't you speak on the phone? do you have his number so that you can phone him? if not then i suspect he is married or living with someone.
2006-11-01 09:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by magicalle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's according to his off days and what you do when you meet up. Take your off days into consideration too. Does he answer when you call him during the week? There are a lot of factors to take into consideration. More info would help.
2006-11-01 09:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably too busy in the week working; lots of people are. He wouldn't 'chase' you if he didn't like you. Take a chance on him.
2006-11-01 09:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does, but probably has only the weekends free. You should ask him out!! Nothing ventured nothing gained, I always say! =)
2006-11-01 09:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by J J ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only contacts you at weekends he could be married.
2006-11-01 09:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if he has been chasing you for years then it is a good bet that he probably wants to hook up.
2006-11-01 09:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he just wants to bone you at weekends. I've done that a few times.
Not boned you, of course.
Ahem....
2006-11-01 09:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by Shinny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was really interested in a girl, I would ring her everyday.
2006-11-01 09:43:27 · answer #11 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋