I ended up pregnant when I was 12 and I got an abortion. I got another one when I was 14 and I've had 5 misscarriages. I'm 18 now and I ended up pregnant again, I'm thinking of getting another abortion.
2006-11-01 01:27:04 · 30 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well what happened may have been mistakes or intentional but at least now you realise its wrong and you have your entire life ahead of you to change yourself and try to become a better person.
The past is the past,is does not define us,or influence the present or future unless we let it.
2006-11-01 02:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by al 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you seeking negative attention in such a blatant and transparent way? If you're looking for people (Christians, I'm guessing) to condemn you based on these things you're describing so that you can triumphantly declare them to be closed-minded and hateful, you are just as guilty as they are.
Only you have to answer to God. I can't stand there for you, neither can anyone else. Since I am personally pro-life, I could not in good conscience get an abortion. I would be tortured by that decision for the rest of my life-- as, I suspect, you are already finding out.
If what you're saying is true (and I have no way of telling if it is) of course my advice would be to keep the child. I had a son in college, and while it's difficult, it's not impossible. But I can't tell you what to do or how to think.
2006-11-01 01:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lanani 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't go to hell for having abortions. You go to hell because you have sinned AND have not received the free gift Jesus offers you. He offers to pay the price for your sin so you don't have to pay it.
Maybe you should try some other form of birth control. I am not sure if all those misscarriages and abortions are really healthy for you.
2006-11-01 01:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you know Jesus? Yes, no you won't be going to hell, No, then you will. However let me just take this moment to plead with you in refrence to the road you are on. As much as it pains me to hear about someone so young having an abortion (my oldest daughter is almost nine, not that far off from 12 so this really strings a heart string in me) not to mention two abortions and one possible one. You are not only destroying your unborn babies bodies, but you are destroying your own. God made you with His loving hand and He loves you very much. It pains Him to see you do this to yourself time and time again. I am going to get my ministry and tribute pages back on my profile, but in the mean time please contact me via IM, my heart goes out to you!
2006-11-01 01:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by newcovenant0 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd better rethink your life. To many abortions and you'll never have a child when you really want one. Don't abort the baby, give the child to a couple who can't have children. That will be a good deed.
2006-11-01 01:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by greylady 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you getting pregnant so much is a lot worse than the amount of abortions, hardly anyone will agree with that but where the 'hell' is your protection.
2006-11-01 01:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your sin is following you. I was pregnant at 14 ,What a gift
had my second at 16 my third at 18.Stayed at home,gave them all My love.They are grown now and they are such a blessing.I
Sure am happy I did not murder them.
2006-11-01 01:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand you making bad decisions as a child (where were your parents?), but you are 18 now and grown enough to take responsibility for a child you make. You may not go to hell but you will regret it later.
2006-11-01 01:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God can heal you of the sin of promiscuity outside the bonds of marriage if you honestly give your life over to Him and live a life dedicated to His service. It doesn't mean you can't have a life and get married and have children someday; it only means that your lifestyle needs to change.
2006-11-01 03:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by bigvol662004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some sex education first, and ***** later. There are so many ways to avoid pregnancy. Better you go for the loop for your 'loop hole'. And, there is no hell or heaven, so don't mind about it. But, there are chances that you might be going to any hospital's AIDS ward.
2006-11-01 01:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Pirate of the Bassein Creek 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋