he will just let his phone ring, but he is a text freak. am i just being imature about it? he is always with me except when i'm at school, but i should be the only one he calls babe, right? Maybe i'm just insecure. what would ya'll do?
2006-11-01 01:17:27 · 20 answers · asked by collegechick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look u must make him feel that u trust him
because if he really have that feeling he will love u more and more
about the girls that calls him u can also have ur friends form guys who call u and then see what is his respond to that
2006-11-01 01:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that this is necessarily true. You're WAY over-generalizing. Have you met all of the single girls and all of the girls that are off the market? No, probably not. With that said, here's my sentiment on why this might be true, if it were: Girls that are single may be more timid and are waiting for the males/females to come to them, whereas girls that are taken may be wanting to see if they have it. However, the two sets of girls have very differing motives (depending on their morals, that is). The single girl would take flirting a whole lot more seriously than the taken girl who might flirt and not even realize that she's doing it. She might be trying to make her boyfriend 'work' to keep his catch a little bit. Who knows. People are weird.
2016-05-23 01:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, give him a sporting chance to change things. Does he know the other girls are bothering you? I'd tell him flat out, "I don't like that all these girls text and call so much. I don't like you flirting with them."
If he's not interested in changing, I'd get a date some night and tell him about it. Something like this, "You've got so many girls calling you, I didn't think you were serious about us anymore, so I looking for greener pastures. If you are serious, then let all those girls know you're mine and to leave you alone or I'm moving on."
You don't want to be with someone you don't trust or feel jealous about. I'd wonder if he's so bold to flirt and take so many calls when you are around, what's he doing when you're in school.
2006-11-01 01:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by M H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know one girl that, when she has a boyfriend, she doesn't flirt with any other guy. It seems impossible for a girl not to flirt. Every girl I know flirts with multiple guys, whether she's with someone or not.
All of these girls that answered and told you to dump him...no. Hell no. He's probably just messing around. As long as you trust him...you trust him not to do anything but flirt, you should be fine with it. I mean..you do it too, right?
If you don't, then you should tell him how you feel about it. If that goes wrong, then do the same thing back to him, and see how he feels.
Good luck with it all
2006-11-01 01:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by The Nutmeg Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been in with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now and over that time we have learned that you need to trust the other person. I know that if girls are calling him that if i ask about it he will tell me. He hide nothing and i hide nothing there is no reason to. And if your boyfriend is going to cheat he will no matter what you do. but i don't think you immature i think that you need to trust him in knowing that he loves you and only you and if he doesn't then he is not worth it. and sometimes it is easier to call people babe or Hun then remember there name. i know i do it all the time i am calling my boyfriends dear or baby. well i hope i have helped and if you need anything e-mail me i would be glad to help..mailforliz2000@yahoo.com
2006-11-01 01:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? He gets phone calls and texts from other girls and calls some of them babe? How much more proof do you need hon? He is a playa!
2006-11-01 01:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be upfront with him, ask him why these girls call him, alot can happen during a school day. Don't be sneaky and try to get his phone, ask him, be firm and let him know it bothers you and what can you both do so you can feel secure in this relationship.
2006-11-01 01:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not being immature, follow your gut instincts that is why God gave them to you. If you think something is going on it probably is. And his behavior honestly is strange for a man who is exclusive to you. I would leave him alone, when you are not around he has the others, believe that. He does not answer the phone when you are around because he can not sit in your face and talk to these other women. He is stringing them along and you also. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-01 01:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The nest time he gets a call or text just ask him who it was and what it was about. If he tells you the truth and it is a girl tell him it bothers you. The only way to fix the problem is to confront him about it. If he lies to you about it...get rid of him...he's not worth your time.
2006-11-01 01:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by Busy Mommy of 3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about this... tell him how it hurts you... if he realy does care, the least he'll do is hide it from you, so it's not in your face, but should take your feelings into account...
also remember, he was like this befor the two of you were dating too, so he might take it as an attack on him, be carefull how you say it, but you do need to talk to him about it...
2006-11-01 01:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋